u/Different_Parfait94

I am an optimistic person. I always believe and hope for the best but my interactions with people these days just make me feel a little sad about the world.

If only people could be more optimistic too and not always worry about the unknown or how life is going to be if if if if if.

I mean, life is a roller coaster ride no? How are we supposed to always be on top when there was never down? It's okie to be down a little sometimes, it's okie to feel sad or unhappy or negative or pessimistic sometimes but don't allow these feelings to get stuck in you.

Yolo or yodo.

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After joining Bumble, I realised I have a lot of matches and all these men think I am a sexy and hot milf.

I want to challenge myself to something new and maybe earn some money. But my daughter is against it. She says I can do OnlyFeet but not OnlyFans..

Bummer.. 🥺

There are times I am convinced I am the real-life version of The Truman Show because I have seen the same people 3 times in a day at different locations. How is this possible?!

So I came up with a theory, the production probably has no budget. They hire the same extras and make them walk around me back and forth.

Starting tomorrow, I will try to make an effort with product placement and tell viewers how good I feel about the products.

Now can we bring in my true love? I am ready for the next season thank you.

I'm sorry I can't date you because you are too young for me. And I hope you have gone back to the gym since I last saw you. 🥺

It's been 2 months now and I thought about you a lot. I know I might have hurt you with the rejection but that's the right thing to do. You deserve to be with someone your age.

I know it took you a lot of courage to approach me. I saw your friend cheering for you, and that was really cute, ngl. I was very tempted to say yes, I truly was.

Hope you are happy and smiling like you always do.

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I don't work, but I have a legitimate source of income.

A lot of my friends always wonder why I can travel all the time and ask how I pay for my travels, but I really don't want to share.

I deleted most of my social media and don't post anything online to reduce exposing myself too much but when I catch up with friends we always talk about what I have been doing lately and all I can tell them is that I have been traveling.

One time a friend of mine told me I should make up stories and fabricate what I have been doing. I tried but I can't keep a straight face telling lies..

I can understand that some people can be jealous of my lifestyle and I don’t want that. I always wish for the best things to happen to every kind soul out there and I hope my friends can be genuinely happy for me instead of comparing or being jealous.

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I am back for 2 months, and I don't know what to do every day. I go for morning walks with my mommy every morning. After that, I go back to my hotel room and take a shower, and then I go back to my parents’ place and do nothing, just sit around, chat with my parents a bit here and there until dinner, and then I go back to my hotel room to watch Netflix and sleep.

What can I do? I am not a shopaholic, so shopping is boring for me. All my friends work, so there is no one to hang out with me.

I don’t understand. There are 10, exactly 10 treadmills, all in a straight line, and 9 of them are free.

Why? I mean, I really hate the breath of someone else, especially the garlic breath.

It's not the first time, this is the second time this week and I still don't get why..

And this has created a slight problem.

I am a 45-year-old Asian woman living in a European city. I go to the gym daily to work out, and I have been attracting a lot of younger guys. Guys as young as their early 20s. I am flattered by it, but this is not my intention.

I do want to date, but not younger guys because I am looking for a long-term partner. I don't know how else to meet someone in real life except for the gym.

Every time a young guy comes up to me and wants to chat, I get nervous. I don't know how to tell them I am probably as old as their mother.

What should I say to them? Should I tell them directly that I am too old for them, or wait for a better time?