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Did your narc discard you then dye their hair? I can’t stop laughing it’s as if they think dying their hair means they have now changed and aren’t the same person, cracks me right up.

Any people dealt with female narcs/ psychopaths?

I believe I was in a long term relationship with a literal psychopath, she also works for nhs and I believe she reads files as I have proof she’s done this before, it’s terrifying they go for these kind of roles…. Lost faith in psychiatrist also and psychologists as they seem to enjoy the suffering of vurnable people.

I don’t know if I can live in this image obsessed, fake as fuck, superficial horrific world, why does everyone act so superficial and have a major major lack of empathy for anyone but themselves?

everyone is in it for them and what they can “get” out of people everything is transactional, fake and makes me feel physically sick, why do you have 400 followers on instagram and talk to 2 people daily? why is everyone intertwined on social media that have never said a single word to each other in 20 years

This generation is obsessed with spying, stalking watching online posts comparing lives and I don’t want to be here anymore in this shitty competition of life.

Do you attract safe kind and loving people?
Do they make you feel at peace and stable?

a lot of my symptoms were coming from the people around me, it turned out these people were using covert manipulation, a long term pattern of mine is being attracted to and attracting, users, abusers, and people who want to make my life difficult.

I am a magnet for broken people I have done so much work over the years for new people to come into my life and revel there using intentions, I’m so hyper vigilant I now believe there is not a single nice decent person on earth.

Hello, I am here to ask a question just to see what kind of answers I get as I noticed something and I don’t know if it’s just me!

What kind of music or hobbies did the narcissistic person in your life enjoy? I met a girl the other day who showed strong traits, I noticed she almost had no friends, and her hobbies were, make up and doing her hair. I found this very strange

I find that covert usually don’t have an actual music taste and just listen to anything that is “new” in the charts to seem up to date and popular.

Do they even have an actual personality or do they steal it do everyone they ever meet?

Thank you

Hello everybody I came across this video, a documentary of darlie router being interviewed after her two young sons were murdered.

A few minutes in you will see her face and see her smirk and her eyes go to the side, this is called dupers delight, I have experienced this with several narcissistic females and the look is almost chilling it terrifies me, almost demonic… sociopathic enjoying others pain, disgusting. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DPmQw2rCs-H/?igsh=MWhpNHFpN2psc2o2

Have you ever been gaslighted into feeling your reaction was completely over the top when infact it wasn’t specially after a bpd diagnosis that people know about.

Several people in my life have been using my disorder to get away with treating me like shit… and my anti depressants even enabled it to by just shutting me up and calming me down..

Or has anyone deliberately tried to bait you into an “epsiode” so they can confirm you are the one who needs help?

Just trying to see if I’m not the only one, I do accept I have bpd of course, but I won’t accept anymore horrific treatment from so called “friends” and the fact I have still got friends and family

I’m not that bad I also have a lot of work friends and a stable job of 4 years now I have been doing very well managing my bpd but these people have been actively gaslighting me into thinking I’m a clingy, horrible person which I’m not all I wanted was basic human decency from these friends and ex partners but it was always “too much”.

we see online those videos of people doing parasite cleanses, eating and drinking certain things to rid there bodies of toxicity.

What about humans who are parasites?

I’ve cut off 3 in the last year and a half and I can’t remember the last time I fell ill… my mood has greatly improved, my appetite, my peace, my anxiety, rashes gone, migraines gone.

cutting 3 different people off in that small frame of time I feel pretty good and it seems very strange.
I’m listening to my body and my intuition for the first time ever and it feels amazing, yes it can be lonely but it is a completely different type as I’ve felt the loneliest I’ve ever been in a relationship with a female covert narc.

Look after your environment and yourself.

maybe not grandiose but, covert.

have you ever seen the innocent baby face they put on? The clueless “I havnt done anything wrong” with the wide eyes and then the small tiny smirk at the corner off there mouth?

it’s disgusting this is what makes me internally vomit my body is about to give in every time I even think of it.

I want to understand a bit more, I know my reactions are extreme much calmer now after years of smoking weed obviously, but I could name you many things people have done to cause me to massively react then I’m called out for my behaviour and I have to apologise, I will put my hand up when I am wrong, but I believe people don’t react for nothing and neither do animals there has to be something to cause it other than I just snapped, I’ve taken the blame for this for years and I’m done taking the blame these people have actively been baiting me and I know they have.

Do animals bite for nothing?

I’ve just ended 3 close female relationships for baiting me for a reaction these people have been friends with me for years they know better,

The symptoms of bpd are the same symptoms of emotional abuse brought on my somebody else, DARVO
I will poke you first then
Deny- I am just trying to help you
Attack- your bpd is so bad you are psychotic and unwell.
Reverse victim and defender
When the person started this all along.

Ever seen someone put a really really innocent face on and say “I don’t know what I’ve done” truth is they know we are all adults don’t fall for this shit.

Can anyone please tell me if they are chronically suicidal from the moment they wake up? I wake up physically gutted and dissapointed, I’ve had suicidal thoughts for around 15 years now every single day It says online this is a symptom of bpd and I didn’t realize anyone else have this?

everytime I come off my anti depressants it’s called withdrawal I cry, about things that have hurt me or are hurting me I’ve just realized that taking these anti depressants enabled me to stay in a highly abusive relationship for years by numbing me I was allowing her to treat me whatever way she wanted

until my body began to convulse and she had to run.
I’m having the same problem with friends now a year and a half later they never invite me anywhere but always use me as an emotional backup safety net I’ve been letting them do whatever they want and treat me whatever way and just enjoying that I have “friends” and I feel this may be because of anti depressants.

I’m now coming off them and everything is raw the thoughts people tell me aren’t true are real there is evidence that they are shit friends and evidence I was being abused.

I went to the gp whilst my ex was goin through my phone and monitoring me, I told them I felt very paranoid and they asked me if I’d been taking drugs lately.

I want to cut everyone off for good but people just say “that’s my bad mental health” talking, just shut up take your tablets and comply.