u/DiligentSelf4934

Hi all, I hope you are all doing well. For those who are doing IVF, did IVF, who are naturally trying or tried naturally to get pregnant for a second baby, or maybe third or fourth, what was your last straw? What made you decide to stop?

We are doing IVF again to give my daughter an earth side sibling, our transfer in March failed, and just had a recent one.

After we lost our second daughter in December who was conceived spontaneously, I feel like there’s nothing good that’s going to happen, I just feel so pessimistic, frustrated and defeated. I don’t think I can do more IVF transfers if this recent one failed again. I am just tired and I want to live my life again but I really want to give my daughter a sibling.

I’m sorry if this is long, I just feel so lonely at the moment.

I opened my Facebook after a long time and came across a page I joined when I knew about my daughter’s diagnosis. Parents there are so positive and hopeful about their children’s condition and are happy that they are thriving. I got really sad and jealous, what if I gave my daughter a chance? What if I continued my pregnancy, gave birth to her and she had her surgery?

It’s been 5 months and it’s still so hard.