In laws expecting me to live with them
I got married a few months ago, and my husband has now returned to his job abroad. I am currently living in India while my visa is being processed. We stayed together for a month at my in-laws’ place before he left, and I also work remotely from home.
At the moment, I’m alternating between staying 10 days with my parents and 10 days with my in-laws, but I honestly hate living there. I constantly feel judged for what I eat, when I wake up, and what I wear. My mother-in-law makes comments and taunts about everything, from my body and hair to wearing pyjamas all day or waking up at 8:30(which is very late according to her as she wakes up at 6).
I don’t want to keep living with them, especially since my husband is not here right now. While they are polite to me, I do not feel loved, respected, or comfortable in that house. My visa will take at least 3–4 more months, and I would much rather spend as much time as possible with my parents before I leave the country.
Help me with how to handle this.