Why do people think we are promiscuous?
I am really cuddly, warm. Like to make people feel special - especially those who feel insignificant but I rarely date.
I have never had a proper hookup. I have slept with a few friends but after months of entertaining the idea. I am such a fucking prude, it is honestly embarrassing at 35.
I probably date someone once every 2-3 years. On average the relationships last 2 years. I’ve had one ex I sort of ying-yanged with for 15 years in between the times we were single but even that the longest extent was 2-3 years?
I was celibate for most of my 20s. I cheated once when I was 16.
Like, if anything this seems like a pretty general level of experience or even a little lacking.
I don’t flirt in relationships. I am extremely romantic and enjoy loving who I’m with at the time. I don’t get bored. I’m communicative if I am unhappy and usually I am the one to end things.
What am I doing wrong? I feel like if anything I might be too rigid?