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Sending bills through the mail needs to be outlawed.

Dramatic title is dramatic, so maybe they should just make them give you a way to pay that isn't via postage.

I got a blood test a bit over a month ago and was told a bill would come in the mail.

It hasn't come. I'm afraid of it just turning up when I don't have the money or having people hired to harass me.

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u/DirelyWolf4687 — 2 days ago
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A tale of two small paragraphs mashed together

There needs to be a term for people who are comfortable with the gender forced on them, a man being ok with that gender being assumed for them, but wanting to change their sexual characteristics. I don't think non-binary properly covers that case. Even if it is rare, I think it's chill.

The desire to conform to society and to change society can come from the same place (for me at least). That desire to just give in comes from the pain that can come from being trans changing into depression. When someone doesn't think they can change things, they lose hope. The reason I would prefer to be trans over being cis is that the anger in my heart for everything that has happened is true and just.

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u/DirelyWolf4687 — 4 days ago
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I'm glad I got to be trans.

I would rather keep my life the exact same rather than be some heartless cis person. The freedom that realising that other people are the problem is so sweet.

Anyway, that's all.

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u/DirelyWolf4687 — 5 days ago
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I hate when people think they can throw groups under the bus for acceptance.

The moment they don't see you as cis, or any other characteristic of the oppressing class, you're applied to different standards.

They will make a systematic ranking of every mistake you've made, diagnosis you've gotten, and marginalised group you're part of to label you.

Go ahead, replace being a transgender person with being a 'good' transgender person. Lest you forget that they will never let you into their club. They will always look at you with those eyes filled with malice.

The moment a subgroup of transgender people annoys that kind of someone, they start to draw lines on what being trans based on the actions of a handful of people because people who are still teenagers and growing are representative of the groups they're a part of.

They use 'bad optics' as an argument while ignoring that hateful people aren't seeing 'bad optic' people and becoming hateful, they're going to the hatefulness buffet and filling their plates.

The problem is cis people. I will not lay down and let people divide and conquer us into 'acceptance' when cis people are always looking for reasons to hate us.

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u/DirelyWolf4687 — 7 days ago

What is the shelf life of estradiol raws?

I assume it depends heavily on storage conditions. I can provide a dry and dark place currently, but temperature would be uncontrolled.

I'm more than willing to invest into better storage conditions as well.

I want to buy bulk amounts of raws over time until I have enough that I can produce my own hormone treatment for the foreseeable future.

I'm currently focusing on gel, but I do want to look into injections.

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u/DirelyWolf4687 — 1 month ago

Going to switch back to injections

I have unused implants I'm going to have to throw out. They gave me low levels, and I can't trust my doctors to have my best interests in mind with medication they have a large amount of control over.

Even prescribed injections are better. Shame that it's only EV.

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u/DirelyWolf4687 — 2 months ago

What am I meant to do about the state of politics (tw:suicidal ideation, politics)

I'm in VIC, so, we have an election soonish. I'm worried about One Nation or the Liberals getting into power and rolling back trans rights. I can't easily move either.

I want to die to avoid all this mess. I'm sick of being treated like a subhuman when I already have to deal with being in a body that isn't mine.

I know it's 5 months away meaning anything could happen, but I don't feel safe.

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u/DirelyWolf4687 — 2 months ago

Is it possible to get in contact with Fluence Clinic on the weekend

I mistakenly pressed to reschedule my appointment when I did not intend to. I've sent several emails already and left a voice message.

Sort of having a breakdown and need advice over this as I can't really afford to pay a late fee.

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u/DirelyWolf4687 — 2 months ago

Think we won

edit: This is about Giggle V. Tickle sorry

It's been upgraded to direct discrimination and Tickle gets 20k instead of 10k.

The transphobes' appeal got dismissed

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u/DirelyWolf4687 — 3 months ago