u/Disastrous-Radish353 — reddlx

You. Guys. My (39F) hubby (43M) is so petty. We got into a stupid “argument” this evening while I was cooking dinner. So one of our dogs is a puker. There is zero rhyme or reason to it and it is completely unpredictable. Well tonight he puked 2 massive piles of undigested dog food by the kitchen table. I cleaned up most of it, put the dogs out, and asked hubby to help me move the table so I could throw the rug in the washing machine (it’s one of those washable rugs). While I was stuffing it in the washer, hubby walked by taking the trash full of dog puke out to the garage. I said there was still some pile on the wood floor that I didn’t get cleaned up yet. He didn’t acknowledge hearing me so I repeated myself louder. He proceeded to yell at me that he doesn’t “need to hear it from me.” To which I asked “hear what?” His response was to tell me to quit hounding him. He has proceeded to give me the invisibility treatment since then. It’s been about 2 hours now and he is acting as if I don’t exist. Won’t respond when I speak or even look in my direction. What the actual fuck. Why? Why are men like this? Every time we argue, no matter how big or small, this is how he acts. It’s infuriating and demoralizing.