u/DiscussionBitter2888

Unfortunately having to proceed with a divorce. Looking for a fair and reasonably priced divorce lawyer for uncontested with a child. All help greatly appreciated

For context, this isn't a rash decision, but one that has been a long time coming. I've endured nearly 10 years of cheating, emotional abuse, and being treated as the same need as a lamp. Before people come for me saying, "why didn't you leave earlier", just know I tried but there were a multitude of other factors at play. Came across the newest infidelity this week and realized enough is enough. I'm honestly not sure where to start, obviously some would say a lawyer. With that being said, I feel like he and his narcissistic mother should pay for everything to be ended since he did the breaking. We don't have any owned assets beyond 1 vehicle, and it's in his name. I just want my belongings, my child, and my pets and to get out away from the mental strain this is taking on me. I'm perfectly fine with joint custody and truly don't want anything else from him. I haven't confronted him yet as I'm trying to get some things in order before I leave. I'm trying to decide how to tell him that it's done forever and I need him to go stay at his mom's while I pack away my belongings and move without his crocodile tears and faux promises for the 8th time. I'm simply at a loss of what to do first and feel like all the steps I have written down are missing something. My mother is saying yes definitely leave but don't divorce immediately as 10 year anniversary is coming up. If able, I'd like he and i to come to an agreement and hust pay filing fees. Any advice or words of wisdom are appreciated if given in a kind and tactful manner. Mentally, I was done ages ago, but putting it into action is a whole different demon to slay.