u/Dismal-Sand-3899

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Title: Women above 25 and unemployed: Should marriage come first or career?

If a woman has crossed 25 and is still unemployed and trying to build her career, should her first priority be marriage or becoming financially independent first and then getting married?

A lot of people say things like “career is not running away anywhere” and that a woman can focus on her career after marriage as well. But practically speaking, is it really that easy after marriage? Especially in Indian households where responsibilities often increase.

Do you think it is better to first settle professionally and then marry, or should marriage not be delayed because of career uncertainty?

Also, to people who say “you can build your career after marriage too,” what would you say to them based on real-life experiences or observations?

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u/Dismal-Sand-3899 — 13 days ago

Does anyone else hate the phrase *including women and children* that news reporters use to report deaths during wars or other violence.

Obviously I'm talking about non combatants here. But it's such a dehumanizing phrase like do our deaths not matter in this world?

Edit: children I can understand but women? Is it not the same when I'm talking about non combatants?

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u/Dismal-Sand-3899 — 18 days ago

r/InsideIndianMarriage - there is a post about a 34 year old man who was lied to about his wife's past and the vast majority of women are supporting her right to lie about her past.

Such a disgrace!!

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u/Dismal-Sand-3899 — 21 days ago

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He never agrees with the other person. His first response to an interviewer, no matter what the question is, is to disagree.

He does this intentionally. To shake the foundation of the interviewer. To make the other person feel intellectually inferior.

Most of the time, sadhguru does this by context switching, using different words to say the same thing, and intentionally using complex English to make himself sound profound.

Very offputting..

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u/Dismal-Sand-3899 — 24 days ago