Am I wrong??
F [28] M [25]
I’ve been dating him for 4 months now. He pursued me on social media after I met him at a party one year ago. At the beginning of this year, I finally thought, maybe I should give him a chance, I really liked his consistency. I work very hard, have my own place and transportation. He works as well and has his own place and transportation too. He showed up a lot in the beginning, came over with flowers, did the whole nine. Fast forward to lately and I realized he was kinda cheap, but only with me. He spent a lot on himself but when it came down to our dates, he’d tell me he didn’t have it and we’d have to do something in his budget. The next day, he’d bring over some expensive cologne with him and asked me how it smelled or he’d ask me to drop him off at an NBA game because he knows I live close to the arena in our city.
He also still had dating apps on his phone and when I asked about them, he told me he just never thought to delete them. Recently, we went to the movies and I had no idea he’d taken me on a discounted day, it was crowded and when I asked him why, he acted confused. When we got to the front and started getting our tickets, I realized this was another cheap date for us, he was only spending $5 per ticket so I got really upset and called him cheap but I wasn’t loud or anything. He got really upset and decided to drop me off at home after the movie. The whole car ride was silent. When I got up for work this morning, I seen a text from him that says he never wants to speak to me again. He told me that I knew his situation and that he was trying to save money. Today, I see his social media before he deleted me and he’s at another playoff game. I felt as though he did the bare minimum, I’m not some 21 year old that’s okay with a lackluster relationship. Am I wrong?