u/DistinctTwo9005

I (18f) and (26m) have been dating for a little while, and we were discussing periods and tampons. I was telling him that I usually change my tampon when it’s full that’s obvious. My boyfriend was going on, saying that I'm dirty and unhygienic because I should be changing it every time I pee. I told him that’s not how that works and he sounds uneducated about female anatomy. I just feel like I’m doing something wrong now. It pisses me off that he’s trying to make me feel disgusted with my own anatomy. Thoughts?

I went on a date with this guy last night. We went out for pizza. We ordered our food, and he got up and left for quite a while without saying anything to me. I was starting to think he had just left, and I was confused about where he went. Then he came back and said in a cheerful tone, “I just moved the car.” I said okay, and the date continued. It just felt strange that he didn’t say anything beforehand and just got up and left me. I felt kind of annoyed with him and just thought he was trying to fuck with me, like why did he just get up and walk off? I also think I’m going to stop seeing him because he’s 25 and I’m 18.