u/Double-Camp7210

My parents dont agree of my boyfriend but are politically playing, telling me that they will meet him see him like other rishtas but i know its a no.
But they are manipulating me to see other rishtas saying that we are considering your option so you consider ours. I read my mom’s text to my dad saying circulate my janmpatri and biodata to all brahmin friends and this mission should be on top priority now.
My mom is telling me to get me engaged in 2 months and marriage by end of the year.
Although my dad is being political and telling me to just see rishtas and talk to boys and try moving on from my boyfriend, and let these things go on simultaneously.

What should i do how should i also politely say a no to them, i dont want to fight or hurt them because they are not being hurtful to me yet.

I am 25F and as per my parents i am getting late for marriage

I love my bf (me 25 F, him 25M), but i never understand why. I just find peace being around him.

You guys tell why do you love your man, when did you first realise you love him? Maybe i can myself figure out some qualities from yours.

I (25 F) have told my parents about my boyfriend (25 M) 1.5 months back and going through hell since then due to inter caste, inter social status, inter economic status and city village issues. They completely bash me for choosing a gawaar and somebody just behind my money.
Although my bf himself earns good and more than me and lives in mumbai.

This manipulation has happened to such extent that i am questioning whether i want to be with him or not.

Can you all tell your love marriage stories, how much time did you take to convince, what all did you hear from your parents, what was your case why were your parents against the relationship and did you all end up together or not?