u/Double-Statement-781

Hey guys, I recently turned 28 and doing good in my career too. Last year I came into a relationship with this guy who cheated on me and I went through a really hard breakup, that was my first relationship. I don't want to have an arranged marriage, I always wanted to know a person before marrying but my mom is desperate to get me married, I am so confused, I am not against marriage but because of my past I have a lot of trust issues. Can anyone here predict about my love life and marriage? Will I have an Arranged marriage or a love marriage? Is it a good decision to postpone marriage and focus on myself for a few years? I really need some insight on this as I am confused. Thank you.

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Hey guys, I recently turned 28 and doing good in my career too. Last year I came into a relationship with this guy who cheated on me and I went through a really hard breakup, that was my first relationship. I don't want to have an arranged marriage, I always wanted to know a person before marrying but my mom is desperate to get me married, I am so confused, I am not against marriage but because of my past I have a lot of trust issues. Can anyone here predict about my love life and marriage? Will I have an Arranged marriage or a love marriage? Is it a good decision to postpone marriage and focus on myself for a few years? I really need some insight on this as I am confused. Thank you.

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Hello, I have been preparing for UPSC for the last 2 years and haven't cleared prelims itself. This year its gonna be my last attempt as I don't want to waste my youth for an exam. I need serious guidance wrt my career, should I got for state services or ssc or shift my focus towards academics and further studies as I am eligible for PhD this year, and try for assistant professor?

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To all the women who are active on dating sites in chennai, I am 100% sure you must have come across this particular profile of this guy, who claims to work at Chennai Airport(cannot reveal more info here), will take so much efforts to win you initially, plans dates and stuffs and will make you feel like the most beautiful women on this planet.

HE IS A WALKING LAXMI-CHIT FUND.

So this guy texted me as well, confessed his love for me, and when I stalked a little, I got to know he had an ex of 7 years, a girlfriend of 2 years and was parallelly dating 2-3 women from dating sites too. Although we all have blocked him now, but I am damn sure he must have slipped back to his old habits. If you come across any such dating profiles, DO NOT swipe right, or be ready for a life time trauma.

stay safe ladies