u/DoubleBee123

I am the primary caregiver for our adult son with autism. I am always home with him and it has become a pattern that my husband makes plans and gives me no notice. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect a little notice even if I am home with him anyway.

He does help with his care and always has but since our son aged out of school it has become primarily my responsibility.

I asked him a while ago to make himself available 2 evenings a month so that I can have some self care time but it doesn’t happen unless I remind him repeatedly.