Happy Coming Out Day! I came out at work exactly 3 years ago today! (41yo MTF)
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Happy Coming Out Day! I came out at work exactly 3 years ago today! (41yo MTF)

I had already been on HRT for about 7 months and was getting to the point where people were noticing that I was looking different so I decided today was the perfect day to come out - Oct 11 2023. The pictures on the left are from October 2023 and the ones on the right are from October 2026. I'm now almost 4 years on HRT and infinitely happier to be me.

u/Double_Cry_6 — 4 days ago
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One of the best side effects of estrogen is it de-ages you a lot (41yo MTF)

Before transition, at age 37 I very much looked 37. Now I look at my old pictures and think "that guy could be my dad."

u/Double_Cry_6 — 16 days ago
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Finally feeling confident enough to wear outfits like this (41yo MTF)

I'm almost 4 years into transition and I've never been confident enough to wear a cami + skirt. Over the past year I lost almost 50lbs and I'm so proud of how much better I look in camis.

u/Double_Cry_6 — 1 month ago
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Felt really pretty this morning (41yo MTF) 🏳️‍⚧️

Had to go through some very tough family stuff but I got through it. Now I'm waiting for October, when I go back to the Netherlands to visit my girlfriend 🥰

u/Double_Cry_6 — 1 month ago
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I miss my girlfriend. Won't see her again until October 😭 (41yo F)

Laundry day alone sucks 😭

u/Double_Cry_6 — 1 month ago
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Transition saved my life (2023-2026 41yo MTF)

Almost 4 years and -45lbs and I will never go back.

I'm healthier and happier than ever

u/Double_Cry_6 — 2 months ago

Maybe the 40s aren't so bad after all (41yo MTF)

Started transition in 2023 at age 37

u/Double_Cry_6 — 2 months ago
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Almost 4 years into transition. HRT saves lives 🏳️‍⚧️

One thing I will never regret is choosing to live. I started transition at 37, and I'm 41 now. I thought it was too late, but it wasn't. Turns out it's never too late.

u/Double_Cry_6 — 2 months ago
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What exactly does "looking queer/lesbian" even mean? (41yo F)

I am with somewhat regular frequency told that I look "queer" or "lesbian" and while I am both, I find it really odd because I don't think I look or dress differently than any straight girl does. It's not something that upsets me, more just a curiosity.

u/Double_Cry_6 — 2 months ago

Ok sure, boymode vs girlmode (41yo MTF)

Inspired by the other post, I just thought it would be funny. I don't actually boymode anymore but the pic on the left is from a few months ago. Tried my best - used a tight sports bra, tied hair back, etc.

u/Double_Cry_6 — 2 months ago