My partner (18M?) came out to me (18F) as gender fluid and I don’t know how I feel
I am 18F and my boyfriend is 18M(?) we have been together for a year and he just told me yesterday he is gender fluid. I do not know how to feel about all of this we are or were both cis and straight and I am only attracted to men but I do love him a lot and our relationship had been nothing but perfect except for this. I have been sobbing since he told me and I feel so horrible that I dont understand it. I come from a conservative family so i dont know how they would react if they found out (none of their business and i wont be telling them) but if he decides to tell them i dont know if it would be unsafe you know? I’ve tried talking to him about what it means to him to be gender fluid and he hasn’t really answered my questions and he is really upset that I said to him “I don’t really know how I feel about it” i didn’t mean that in a way that i don’t support i just dont know if i can be in a romantic relationship with a woman at times. i feel so horrible about it because if it was a friend that told me and not my partner i would be in full support. I just need advice from people who have gone through this or something similar. I dont want to end the relationship but if im no longer attracted i dont know if i can stay. (Also just for clarification his pronouns haven’t changed yet and im the only person that knows about his gender identity)