u/DownbadforCSC

My friend and I will be traveling to SG. We were planning on staying sa friend sa akong parents for 2 nights then transfer to a hotel for our last 2 nights to cut down on accom costs para naa mi heavy expense on activities/food. But would it be a red flag sa immig?

Additional note: I’m not a first time traveller internationally, but my friend will be. My friend is actually going to attend a concert and I’m just tagging along for vacation. I just wanted to ask opinions hehe so that less chance of offloading

Problem/Goal: My friend left the gc without any explanation.

Context: We’re a group of 4 in which 3 kami babae and may nag-iisa na lalaki. Now this guy friend of ours is nagkajowa lang recently. Like mga October/November ata last year. Tapos nung February lang biglang nag leave sa GC namin sa IG. When it comes to IG pa naman, hindi nag no-notif if may nag leave ng gc. Nashock nalang kaming tatlo na di na namin siya ma-tag. Like parang cut off na talaga and didn’t even chat anyone sa aming tatlo. Yung naramdaman namin parang ang bastos ng ganun walang explanation bakit. Tapos last talk namin sa kanya inaya namin mag outing tapos he declined kasi he’s about to resign daw. We understood that btw and di na nag push. So parang thoughts namin “did we do something wrong?????” “May mali ba sa mga chats namin?? The way na inaya namin?? Did we say something offensive??”

We suspected naman na maybe it’s because nagseselos jowa niya kasi siyempre puro kami girl na barkada niya. Then one of my girl friends na kasama sa gc met up recently with one of our mutual friends dun sa guy friend namin. Nalaman namin from the mutual friends na tama nga hinala namin. I will not invalidate her feelings sa ganun, because as a girl I will understand. Yung tampo ko is dun sa friend namin na di man lang nag explain why he left?? Kung sinabi niya na “Guys I will leave the gc kasi si (jowa) nagseselos. For her peace of mind rin” then we would’ve understood. Pero wala kasing explanation???

Tapos yung dating sa amin parang walang pinagsamahan?? Aalis lang ng ganun?? Na para bang di namin siya dinamayan sa break up nila ng ex niya (nag nagkabalikan rin namin after a few days)??? Like ginawa lang kaming travel buddies??? And then poof nawala bigla.

Previous Attempts: We didn’t chat him nalang to hear an explanation kasi nga we suspected na baka dahil sa jowa, edi pag nag chat kami sa kanya baya mag away pa sila.