Pastoral realities of promoting confession.
I went to confession recently at my local parish. It had short lines, with less than ten people besides myself that I noticed. Throughout my life, I have been to confession at numerous parishes, and I notice that lines are short at many of them.
At the same time, almost everyone goes and receives Holy Communion. I have seen this at most parishes that I have been to both confession and Mass at.
Of course, one could say “focus on your own spiritual life.” Of course we should, but I don’t think that it waves away what is front of my own eyes, and I don’t think that I’m wrong to be bothered by it either. I care about people going to Heaven. Some may go to other parishes for confession, but the numbers don’t seem to add up.
I went to Mass at this parish the next day, which I don’t usually do - it’s not my usual parish for Mass. I was upset because the priest gave a homily in which he spoke of God’s mercy, but didn’t use the opportunity to invite people to go to confession. I rarely hear priests encourage their congregation to go to confession, or tell them the necessity of it.
Indeed, growing up, I was not well catechized on confession, the distinction between mortal sin and venial sin, or when to go confession. I was taught how to go, but not when or the theology behind it. Conversations with people older than me have revealed the same. My reading has told me that many priests in the 1960’s and 70’s downplayed sin and confession.
So my question to you all is the following: what are the pastoral challenges of getting one’s congregation to go to confession? Why don’t we hear about it more from the pulpit, especially when the topic would seem to make it opportune?