why am i so talkative online but not irl

i’m literally so cool and talkative on reddit, but irl i barely speak 😭 like where does all that confidence go when i’m around people in real life. online me and irl me are two completely different people.😭

Is there anyone like me???

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u/Dramatic-Dark4313 — 5 days ago
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I hate when ppl say ”go talk to them “

like omg thank you????? why didn’t i think of that 😭😭 i have social anxiety that’s literally the whole fucking problem. you think i enjoy standing there rehearsing a conversation 57 times and then not saying anything????

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u/Dramatic-Dark4313 — 5 days ago

I hate being so sensitive sometimes😭🥀🫩

I’m literally the type of person who cries over sad movies, strangers’ stories, and other people’s problems, even when I don’t know them 😭
But the worst part is crying during arguments. I could be making valid points, but my eyes start watering and I can’t even defend myself properly. LIKE BRO, LET ME WIN AN ARGUMENT WITHOUT CRYING 😭🙏
Does anyone else struggle with this? How do you deal with it?

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u/Dramatic-Dark4313 — 5 days ago