u/Dramatic-Two4334

I (20sF) found out that my sister recently died due to some random house collapsing onto her during a storm. When I go to pay my respects, I find that some random girl stole my sister's shoes (who does that), and was on her way to meet someone, thinking he would help fix her house.

Me and my sister weren't very close, but her shoes were a gift from my late mother, and so to see some kid wearing them is very disrespectful. I tried to speak to her a few times to get the shoes back, but she kept refusing. I had my friends kidnap her and bring her to my castle in the hopes that we could have a reasonable conversation, but she kept crying and then tried to kill me. I never got the shoes back.

AITJ for trying to get back the last thing I have of my sister and mother?

I just realised that yesterday, the 10th, was my 1 year anniversary since I first came out to anyone as trans. Not much has happened in that year other than changing my name at Christmas (yes, it took me 7 months to get a deed poll sorted), but it's been such a great year.

Although, the past few days, the gender dysphoria has been harder than normal, which me and my dad had a good laugh about when I told him about the anniversary.

I plan to start DIY in October this year, as I've heavily budgeted for my impending student loan and think I should be able to afford it, which is very exciting! My dad has said he will help fund it as and when he can, which is just the best, as I remember a year ago I was crying at work scared to come out to him.

It's been a rollercoaster of a year, some family and friends are no longer family or friends, but I'm also closer than ever to other members of my family! I look forward to whatever the future holds in my journey! 🏳️‍⚧️

P.S. Can the NHS get their act together asap pls, I'd rather not be broke just to get some hormones lol

I'm currently on the waiting list for Porterbrook in Sheffield, but there's a 5-6 year waiting list there, and I've only been on the list for 4/5 months. I'm planning on moving to Manchester in 3-4 years. Would I be able to "transfer" my place on the waiting list to Indigo (assuming it is still operational when I move), or would I have to go back to the bottom of the list?

And, do we know when we're meant to be getting the proposed centralised list? I heard that it was meant to be delivered last month, but obviously it was not. But, I don't understand how it's meant to help people tbh, I don't want to have to travel down to Devon several times just because that one opened a spot first.