u/Dramatic0kitty

I have been wanting to have my nipples pierced for a while and have talked about it with my boyfriend. He’s on the fence about it. When I was looking into places to get them done he seemed onboard with it, maybe because I was moving away?

But now I’ve waited long enough to get them done and have already emailed the studio about availability. Now he’s so against it saying he doesn’t find them attractive and that he wants me to keep my top on during the deed.

Yes it’s my body and I have the choice to do what I want, but this is just so off putting to me. Not trying to seem like an insecure person but once you’ve been with someone for 3 years and they have such a strong reaction it’s shocking.

Just any tips to ease his mind into the idea of me getting them?

Hi, bit of backstory of this horror story:

First form I used was the Evra patch, which was fine for the first month, but then had incredibly horrible side effects that left me going back and forward to the doctors with repeated vomiting leaving me in bed for a week at a time.

After giving my body and hormones a break I decided to use the merina coil. Inserted with ease and started my period on day 10 of being on the coil. I used no tampons, only pads and on day 12 of being on the coil, it was pretty much out my vagina and I took it out.

Anyways, that was 2 and a half months ago so decided to try it one more incase it was inserted wrong.

Got it done on Wednesday on the last day of my period, which is very light, but bled for a few days after.

Today, Sunday, I was bleeding a lot more so decided to check where it was. It’s rejected AGAIN. This time it only lasted 4 days!

Anybody have a similar story? Or advice !