How can i move forward with my failing college life as a 20 year old?
Hello everyone, I am a 20 year old female currently enrolled in a Community College. I am currently majoring in Liberal Arts. But I've come to the conclusion that I have no idea how to move on and set my future straight, better yet i have no idea what i want to do with my life. I dont know why I even picked the major, I dont have any "goals" or "dreams", and I hate this suffocating feeling of being a complete failure. While others have theyre goals in mind like "im going to be a doctor, im going to own my own buisness, im going to pursue my dream of [insert cool dream]. I have no ambition. I dont know what I want to do in life. High school really didnt help me actually try to understand and pursue a "dream". I dont have good grades and im failing in my classes. Its been almost 3 years since I started CC and im not even half way done. I feel drained and tired because the only thing I want in life is to be comfortable. I want a safe space, i dont want to be rich and alone, heck the only things I like doing is read and mingle in the background. im just aiming at the low and minimum and thats probably my biggest problem. Does this make sense? Probably not but im hoping to hear on your guys opinions or personal takes. Please be brutally honest because I dont have anyone to talk to about this 🫠