u/Dry-Belt7071

I am struggling tonight because I really wish my marriage would of been happy. I dedicated my life to him, stayed with him even when he couldn't offer me anything. After a child, and many years later I did everything I could to make things work but I found him telling people online he was single, just like he did when I was pregnant with his only child.

My divorce was brutal but I am proud of myself that I did it.

I had not opened my X page in a long time & I got a notification that my contact was now on X. I couldn't find that contact...

I wanted to know who he was texting so much so I would save the numbers on my contact list to find later who these people were. So this user that showed is probably one of the women he went out with.

To stop that madness in my head, I got my own separate phone account so I don't do that anymore.

I know it was immature of me. But tonight it brought back the sad memories of a time that should of never happened.

I feel like I am loyal, a giving person, I help and he treated me like I didn't exist. All I wanted was a best friend, a husband that loves me and is proud to talk about me.

I am going to medellin in the fall. Any tips for me?

I am a Latina from central america.

I want to do a small weekend trip. Flight is only 2 hours. Is a night flight to another state scary?

I am getting nervous and I might change it to a day flight ... but then on the other hand, I want to enjoy the city.

Please give me some encouragement 🙏