Need help from all the “playas” out there
I’m in my early 20s and have been on and off hinge for a while now. Maybe it all started when my last serious relationship ended in 2023 but after that it’s been pretty okayish.
Occasionally I hop on here and I feel like I average around 4-5 matches every 2-3 days and it’s not so bad in my opinion(of course some of you might be having more but I’m honestly not here to compete)
When I think about it, I’m conflicted if I wanna hear to the voice that wants this or the one that says I just want to settle with someone who can understand and comfort me the way I hope I deserve.
I tried the hookup culture but honestly I’ve never known how to be upfront without being or sounding desperate so I end up breaking hearts or having it broken in return and it’s a viscous cycle.
I just came to New York and hinge has been good and when I started talking to this one lady, she said she’s had other matches ready for when she returns and that really sank my heart. Maybe I’d started to get attached by this one conversation or whatever.
All in all, I’m just fucked.