u/Dry-Imagination9916

I was the victim of Sextortion of a couple nudes I had in a men’s cruising site, and my wife of 15 years and my family discovered my life long secret. I have never been unfaithful physically, but everyone is looking at me through a very different lense now. it’s very difficult. any advice? anyone who wants to chat and help me figure out the right way to navigate? I’m a bear/ slight chub with a big red beard and smooth belly. I am a verse bot and this has freaked/grossed my wife out to the max…. how do I move forward?