u/DryImportance9946

help me get over this

so I(20F) have been talking to a guy(21M) for like 3mon now and i met him first time after talking for like 2months. So everything was going well.

But its been like a past few days that he was going out with his friends and all and he used to disappear. At first i was like dont do this to me atleast keep updating me and he was like okay. But he did the same for like 2/3times. and i got angry and stopped talking and he was like he is sorry when he is drunk he dont remember anything and all. There was no problem regarding that topic.

But the day before yesterday, He send me some post and i was like you should upload and he did. and his friends were commenting it and he was replying them then i decided to comment it and he deleted that. I was so pissed off about that and i asked him why did he deleted my comment and he said there was something glitch in his post but he was totally lying to me cause other comments were still there and he was replying them but mine was deleted. I was like bitch do u think im dumb.

That topic i deleted made a big scene but i was still upset and he went out again yesterday. And he disappeared again. He was in an event and he said to me that there was no electricity in that event thats why he couldn’t reply me back and i said “do u think im some dumb bitch who is gonna believe your lame ass excuse, we should stop talking”. And he said he is telling the truth and he disappeared again the whole night and texted me in the morning as if nothing happened. And he said he will explain it to me later at night in a call.

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u/DryImportance9946 — 22 hours ago

situationship came back

I(20F) was in a situation 6mon before with a guy older than me (28M). we used to fight a lot like if i didn’t pick up the call then he used to remove me from everything and later comes back saying sorry for what he did. we stop talking in the new year cause he randomly blocked me. After 6mon he called me again saying he is sorry for everything cause he was overthinking. what can he be thinking about all this

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u/DryImportance9946 — 3 days ago

situationship came back

I(20F) was in a situation 6mon before with a guy older than me (28M). we used to fight a lot like if i didn’t pick up the call then he used to remove me from everything and later comes back saying sorry for what he did. we stop talking in the new year cause he randomly blocked me. After 6mon he called me again saying he is sorry for everything cause he was overthinking. what can he be thinking about all this

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u/DryImportance9946 — 4 days ago

im confuseddd

so i’ve been talking with this guy for like 3mon now and i dont know what he is thinking about all this situation of us. sometimes he is like greenest flag ever and sometimes he makes me doubt him. when he is out with his friends he will disappear like he text me in the middle and he completely disappears until the morning but i get that he is spending time with his friends and all but today he is making me more confused cause i commented in his post and he deletedy comment and replied to his friends and later when i asked him he said that his post was glitch and he deleted the post does he think that im stupid or what oh godddd what u guys think?

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u/DryImportance9946 — 4 days ago