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So as the title suggests left a highly toxic Somali owned company based in the UK last year.

Recently their past has caught up to them , a TikTok page showcasing the ceo lost tribunal court case (sexual harassment against female )

They for some reason guessed it was me and instead of seeking evidence aimed to slander my reputation via smear campaign on Instagram.

Of course they had nothing on me (alhhumdulilsh for my clean reputation ) hence they resorted to malicious lies and accusing me of using filters 🤣

I’ve already gotten in touch with police but am contemplating whistleblowing on their illegal business.

I feel I’m not a confrontational person but they took their little game a little too far by using my location area via HR breach as I used to work there.

Married people only

I have a feelingI will never be able to stay happily married or even married again , not due to lack of interest but lack of trust from my side.

One of the key points of marriage is forgiveness not once not twice but constantly.

In my normal life I cope with people disappointing me or crossing boundaries by cutting them off, friends , family anyone can get it.

To the married people : how do you navigate this , has anyone tried couples therapy , at what point do you draw the line. I’ve tried tolerating but resentment often builds.

My non negotiable : cheating , laying a hand on me , not fulfilling my rights. But I’ve often found myself leaving for less, such as my previous marriage which consisted of constant disappointment , lies and lack of accountability.

Just a example of my experience (speaking from the woman perspective )

I think it’s so important as girls that we start holding the other gender accountable when they future promise and actually hold them to it. I used to let it go on and on until I changed my approach recently.

I was speaking to a 30 year old divorcee with no kids and he is a doctor (or claimed to be god knows ) he was very intentional about his plans for marriage and wanting kids and in the first few initial phone calls we seemed to click on a lot of things , but he was very heavy on the I’ll do this I’ll do that , ask me for anything like mentioning it six times a day.

So one day I decided to test him , nothing major just asked if he could help cover a phone bill. In response he stalled and said I could do in a few hours I said okay no problem , then said something quite inappropriate with laughing emojis …. I just blocked.

This was a matter of a few days and that interaction changed something in me. Thank god I asked then and there and saw his intentions.