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Okay so, this is going to be a long one and i’m truly just looking for advice to genuinely apply and not just cribbing.

My SP and I were together for 1.5 years and I already feel like he manifested me because when we met I was in another serious relationship and he just stuck to the idea of us being more than friends, things unfolded in a span of 1.5 years and we did end up officially together, we did a whole year of long distance and he broke up with me in dec, very unexpectedly after 1.5 years of being together.

I wont ramble too much on my circumstances but just for context, everything was perfect between us however we are from different cultures so our parents usually always made a fuss about it in a bad way and fought with us, even though he always stood up for me I was under the assumptions of “men always choose their families” in our culture and really dwelled upon it, finding reasons to call him out on not prioritising me and he still did everything to make me happy. Overtime I let my anxiety about the future get the best of me and outside I didn’t see it coming at all and he broke up with me saying that we can’t be on the same page about this, i want a future with you but i can’t guarantee it and you deserve the best etc…
We stayed close even after that, he had phases of pulling away and being close while reinstating we can’t be together.

I always somewhat believed in manifestation and law of assumption but after the breakup I took the deep dive into it, started off in a bad desperate place, youtube videos, all day long, affirming like crazy, you know the drill…we were still in contact though, so december, january, february went by in a really bad place, march and april i started to pick myself up a bit, dug into my assumptions about us, him, our circumstances and myself, I manifested him coming home for 2 weeks (we were long distance all this time), like I just kept affirming he is coming home in april, anyways during my testing out the law phase I had some successes some things didn’t materialise and we got really close when he came home in april, he had a fight with his parents about me, he still stood up for me, all this time i really started keeping a solid mental diet, let my emotions be and still look at the best, things were good whenever he brought the topic of what are we I said “lets just live in the now and be there for each other”( i also never hid the fact that I would want us to get back together), we spent time just like a long distance couple does,this man never disrespected me still loved me to the fullest and still will take a bullet for me.

Yesterday, we had a tough conversation in which after a long time I talked to him about how i still feel like we could work things out because he still loved me, we still communicated well, i’m still his safe space, we have no malice towards each other, he said he did see a future with me and he still was hell bent that we can’t work it out its just too messy, we are still in contact but yeah yesterday felt like a bummer after 5 months of not reacting, believing, working on my assumptions, while working on myself it feels like i hit a wall, i’ve had some time of consistent mental diet and all the other basics of the law, living from the end etc, I just genuinely need a pick me up right now and maybe some tough love about how everything is possible and time doesn’t matter is definitely easier said than done, i don’t want to go back to affirming like crazy or any other rabbit holes, so I would really appreciate all the constructive criticism and I promise the next post will be a success story:)

Okay so, this is going to be a long one and i’m truly just looking for advice to genuinely apply and not just cribbing.

My SP and I were together for 1.5 years and I already feel like he manifested me because when we met I was in another serious relationship and he just stuck to the idea of us being more than friends, things unfolded in a span of 1.5 years and we did end up officially together, we did a whole year of long distance and he broke up with me in dec, very unexpectedly after 1.5 years of being together.

I wont ramble too much on my circumstances but just for context, everything was perfect between us however we are from different cultures so our parents usually always made a fuss about it in a bad way and fought with us, even though he always stood up for me I was under the assumptions of “men always choose their families” in our culture and really dwelled upon it, finding reasons to call him out on not prioritising me and he still did everything to make me happy. Overtime I let my anxiety about the future get the best of me and outside I didn’t see it coming at all and he broke up with me saying that we can’t be on the same page about this, i want a future with you but i can’t guarantee it and you deserve the best etc…
We stayed close even after that, he had phases of pulling away and being close while reinstating we can’t be together.

I always somewhat believed in manifestation and law of assumption but after the breakup I took the deep dive into it, started off in a bad desperate place, youtube videos, all day long, affirming like crazy, you know the drill…we were still in contact though, so december, january, february went by in a really bad place, march and april i started to pick myself up a bit, dug into my assumptions about us, him, our circumstances and myself, I manifested him coming home for 2 weeks (we were long distance all this time), like I just kept affirming he is coming home in april, anyways during my testing out the law phase I had some successes some things didn’t materialise and we got really close when he came home in april, he had a fight with his parents about me, he still stood up for me, all this time i really started keeping a solid mental diet, let my emotions be and still look at the best, things were good whenever he brought the topic of what are we I said “lets just live in the now and be there for each other”( i also never hid the fact that I would want us to get back together), we spent time just like a long distance couple does,this man never disrespected me still loved me to the fullest and still will take a bullet for me.

Yesterday, we had a tough conversation in which after a long time I talked to him about how i still feel like we could work things out because he still loved me, we still communicated well, i’m still his safe space, we have no malice towards each other, he said he did see a future with me and he still was hell bent that we can’t work it out its just too messy, we are still in contact but yeah yesterday felt like a bummer after 5 months of not reacting, believing, working on my assumptions, while working on myself it feels like i hit a wall, i’ve had some time of consistent mental diet and all the other basics of the law, living from the end etc, I just genuinely need a pick me up right now and maybe some tough love about how everything is possible and time doesn’t matter is definitely easier said than done, i don’t want to go back to affirming like crazy or any other rabbit holes, so I would really appreciate all the constructive criticism and I promise the next post will be a success story:)

Okay so, this is going to be a long one and i’m truly just looking for advice to genuinely apply and not just cribbing.

My SP and I were together for 1.5 years and I already feel like he manifested me because when we met I was in another serious relationship and he just stuck to the idea of us being more than friends, things unfolded in a span of 1.5 years and we did end up officially together, we did a whole year of long distance and he broke up with me in dec, very unexpectedly after 1.5 years of being together.

I wont ramble too much on my circumstances but just for context, everything was perfect between us however we are from different cultures so our parents usually always made a fuss about it in a bad way and fought with us, even though he always stood up for me I was under the assumptions of “men always choose their families” in our culture and really dwelled upon it, finding reasons to call him out on not prioritising me and he still did everything to make me happy. Overtime I let my anxiety about the future get the best of me and outside I didn’t see it coming at all and he broke up with me saying that we can’t be on the same page about this, i want a future with you but i can’t guarantee it and you deserve the best etc…
We stayed close even after that, he had phases of pulling away and being close while reinstating we can’t be together.

I always somewhat believed in manifestation and law of assumption but after the breakup I took the deep dive into it, started off in a bad desperate place, youtube videos, all day long, affirming like crazy, you know the drill…we were still in contact though, so december, january, february went by in a really bad place, march and april i started to pick myself up a bit, dug into my assumptions about us, him, our circumstances and myself, I manifested him coming home for 2 weeks (we were long distance all this time), like I just kept affirming he is coming home in april, anyways during my testing out the law phase I had some successes some things didn’t materialise and we got really close when he came home in april, he had a fight with his parents about me, he still stood up for me, all this time i really started keeping a solid mental diet, let my emotions be and still look at the best, things were good whenever he brought the topic of what are we I said “lets just live in the now and be there for each other”( i also never hid the fact that I would want us to get back together), we spent time just like a long distance couple does,this man never disrespected me still loved me to the fullest and still will take a bullet for me.

Yesterday, we had a tough conversation in which after a long time I talked to him about how i still feel like we could work things out because he still loved me, we still communicated well, i’m still his safe space, we have no malice towards each other, he said he did see a future with me and he still was hell bent that we can’t work it out its just too messy, we are still in contact but yeah yesterday felt like a bummer after 5 months of not reacting, believing, working on my assumptions, while working on myself it feels like i hit a wall, i’ve had some time of consistent mental diet and all the other basics of the law, living from the end etc, I just genuinely need a pick me up right now and maybe some tough love about how everything is possible and time doesn’t matter is definitely easier said than done, i don’t want to go back to affirming like crazy or any other rabbit holes, so I would really appreciate all the constructive criticism and I promise the next post will be a success story:)