u/Dry_Delivery4615

I've always wanted children as a christian thought it was my purpose to pro create. After I have had a baby man I hate it here. No one should be having kids and putting yourself through this. Your partner completely switches up on you on top of going insane from postpartum hormones.

I know most of you don't need much convincing. But don't do it. I feel wrong saying this but I just needed to say it out loud. Don't have children please enjoy your childless life. Have fun and keep spreading the message.

My partner and I are 11 month postpartum and we have fought everyday for the past 11 months. Its exhausting, I'm Kak tired but I'm also a hot head and never let anything slide.

Is this a normal occurrence cause I've seen many couples fight but I just can't seem to grasp why we have to fight so much. I feel like I genuinely hate him. We just had an argument right now because he's planning to go braai with his friends.

I asked why he didn't plan on telling me on telling me about it, and he said 'you make everything about yourself'. Like WTF? Am I overreacting here? I feel like I'm losing my mind. He proceeds to tell me his bra doesn't want me at the braai cause he doesn't like me.

I'm genuinely pissed typing this because I need other humans to help me understand if its okay for him to hang out with someone who has expressed they don't want to hang around me ? Am I missing something, Like why should I be with someone who's friends don't like me and why is he keeping such company if he claims he wants us to be together. Isn't a braai like a social event you take your partner with? Quite frankly I just really like braais' and it hurts to know my partner who knows this is considering to go to one without me. I know I should leave him but my circumstances at the moment don't allow that. I can't afford to rent my own place as a domestic worker once a week and I'm studying part time too.

Will this fighting ever end. I am benaai and just have had it. Its always the crazy baby mama narrative and I'm tired. I keep hearing the first year s the hardest after the baby and you shouldn't break up but honestly somethings aren't really worth it

TLDR; My partner wants to go to a housewarming braai with his friends and I'm not invited.

Hello Redditors.

Its poes cold and I'm super broke can't afford to buy new clothes. I am a part-time student and work as a domestic worker twice a week. My income is literally only enough for rent and I don't qualify for credit from clothing shops.

I am reaching out to anyone who has warm clothes to spare me. Sweaters, Hoodies, Sweatpants and socks. I am freezing guys I only have two jesrsies that aren't that warm. Im literally asking from the bottom of my heart if anyone can please help me stay warm ( No, not in that way sick pervs).

Hope this reaches the right person.

And no I don't have any charity organisations near me, the churches I went to told me they help homeless people before they can consider other people which is fair tbh.

Hello Redditors.

Its poes cold and I'm super broke can't afford to buy new clothes. I am a part-time student and work as a domestic worker twice a week. My income is literally only enough for rent and I don't qualify for credit from clothing shops.

I am reaching out to anyone who has warm clothes to spare me. Sweaters, Hoodies, Sweatpants and socks. I am freezing guys I only have two jesrsies that aren't that warm. Im literally asking from the bottom of my heart if anyone can please help me stay warm ( No, not in that way sick pervs).

Hope this reaches the right person.

And no I don't have any charity organisations near me, the churches I went to told me they help homeless people before they can consider other people which is fair tbh.

Hi Im a young lady (26) im currently completing my Diploma at UNISA.

Im looking for any wonderful couple who may be struggling to conceive on their own and would like to offer them a surrogacy option, so me basically carrying their baby to term.

Ive decided to do this as im aware there are many women who struggle with such issues in their relationships. and importantly for me, would be to be able to receive resonable remuneration mainly because unfortunately I'm in so much debt accrued by my Varsity fees. And most of all to be able to take care of my 10month old baby girls needs now that Im not able to provide for her and so im able to graduate so im able to secure her future.

My partner has suggested that maybe we should let her go stay with his family in the meantime, which I think which be a good time for me to undertake such a responsibility.