u/Dry_Difference7751

I have so many Philosopher's Cache that I can no longer trash/donate, or even take items from my locker due to being too bogged down with items. Selling one by one would take waaayyyy too much time. If some people could please help me with trades of the Philosopher's Cache to take away items 50 at a time until it will let me toss them (you can keep them, toss them, anything you want) I would appreciate it.

Namikazekei is my username.

The most recent antic from my MIL:

She told me that I needed to sell my paid off car in order to help pay down my SO's car.

(SO bought a car from my BIL (in his capacity as a salesman at a dealership, not his personal car being sold to my SO), who was a car salesman. Totally ripped him off, but my SO wanted to trust my BIL... 25k for a 2016 CRV...)

Told me to 'just Uber to appts, grocery, my job, etc'.

BIL has also been feeding MIL information about my SO's finances through the information that my SO gave on the application for the vehicle. I complained to the car dealership, but nada back.

SO backs me with me saying 'hell no'.

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I have been with my SO for 10 years, married for 7 this year. We have two kids. SO was brought up enmeshed with MIL. He is autistic and never got any sort of help or therapies as he grew up due to his mother and her conspiracy theories. With me, he has flourished and stands up for himself. He has put himself into classes and therapy to learn skills he missed out on. He has learned to say no and not to say yes just to make people (including me) happy. He stands up for me when he notices something. It was hard to get to this point, though. It is hard to unlearn all this.

And of course, I am the bad person in the family now that he knows about boundaries and knows how to say no. My SO is now called my 'sheep' by most of his family, and I am treated like crap by all but one. She has started to recognize grey rock, which has been HILLARIOUS.

I have accumulated enough items to where I can't even open the special tab, or delete items from that tab. I can search for the items I want that way to try to delete, but it always errors out the trash/donate/trade options (I get the error "Unable to remove item: serial_must_be_string".

I can't move items from my locker or temp storage either. Anything I can do or anything that anyone had tried to reduce items in this situation? I want to decrease items so I can open up some cash rigs that I have in my locker. Kicking myself for letting things get to this point.

John Frederick Anderson, serial killer in WA State btw 1965 and 1982.

Killed 2 in 1985, got parole in 1975, killed 5-6 more btw 1979 and 1982.

His first murder was my great grandmother. She was a cabbie, he shot her and stole her cab. He served 9 years for the other he killed in 1985, he served less than a year for my great grandmother's murder (tried and sentenced 10 years AFTER she was killed). and was let out only to kill more.

It is hard to get information about this case. WA State has been dragging me along for quite a while now. Not sure if it is because he should not have been let out when he was. People have tried suing the state for the deaths of their family due to him being paroled so early, but the cases went nowhere. Some info has been found online, but not a lot like other serial killers.

I also can only find old news papers that calls him a serial killer. I never see him on lists, books, etc saying such. Especially are many in WA that are touted as such that have killed less than he has.

He has already passed away in prison, but it stings when family can't get much info from anyone.