I think I'm gonna quit

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Hi! This post will be for expressing some thoughts and emotions I've been dealing with internally.

So this is my first contract onboard, with Royal Caribbean. After 4 months, I've seen so many things that I've disliked: My salary, my position, and also I used to have high standards of service. Here, I think I'm just getting worse at serving. (I used to be a waiter in Mexico at JW MARRIOTT, now I'm restaurant attendant somehow)

I also noticed something: I haven't seen people coming from Four seasons, ST REGIS, JW, SOFITEL, etc etc...

I guess it's because they don't need to work onboard or something.

The point is: I'm tired. I have so much debts and I can't afford them anymore ( I used to make more money in my country!). So, what would you do if you were in my shoes? Originally I came here for the experience and salary. Now I see I'm wrong... Should I Apply to hotels again? Apply to any other cruise line? Idk...

Don't get me wrong: I do like cruiselife, even working every single day. I have no problem with that, but my salary is the problem.

Thank you for reading.

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u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 7 days ago

Disney, regent, seabourn or virgin?

Hi there! I'm working onboard for a company but I was thinking seriously of applying to one of these cruise lines: Regent Overseas, Disney cruises, virgin voyages or seabourn.

I think my RÉSUMÉ is not that bad now, so I hope I have an opportunity now. Which company you think pay better and elevate my RÉSUMÉ as a waiter assistant or waiter? I know that when we talk about salary could be complicated, so I don't want to know specific or average amount, maybe just a: "In this company is not that bad"

I'll be applying in a couple of months! Thank you in advance!

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u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 2 months ago

Why did you backpack and how much money did you start with? (My history)

Hi there! I'm Christian, currently 21 years old, from Mexico. For many months this "backpacking adventure" has been calling me. I want adventure, adrenaline, get to know different cultures, people and not least important, myself.

Although, to be honest, I'm not really sure why I wanna do this but I'm sure I'll do it. I wanna hike another mountain, get lost in somewhere, IDK.

However I'll do this trip till 2028 because I'm in debts (that's another question, Are you in debts? Haha, does this affect too much to your life?), so Imma do this till I save up some money.

My questions are simple: How much money Should I have to start? (I was thinking that with at least $5000 USD I can backpack up to 6 months... Maybe?) Why did you back pack in the first place and your experience? And, where should I go?

If I could do this today I would do it, but fucking Money is blocking me up.

Thanks in advance! I'm just a boy who is lost in life (currently working onboard a cruise ship, hahaha)

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u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 2 months ago

Can I take medication onboard when I I said nothing about it?

Hi! I'm sailing soon! Although I lied about a Medicine I used to take: Clonazepam. I ain't drinking anymore, although I'd love to take it with me "just in case". I'm healthy! It's just like it's something that makes me feel safe. Do you think I can get banished or fired for this medicine? I was planning to hide it in the middle of the clothes I'm taking.

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u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 4 months ago

Do you keep using Cigar cutters?

Hi! I'm sailing this coming week! I'm kinda nervous, it's my very first time working onboard. That's why I have a question: Do you think I'll use a cigar cutter onboard? I'm buying all the stuff I'll need (wine key, waiter's cloth, etc)

If so, what brand/type should I buy? I'm from Mexico!

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u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 4 months ago

Do you think I'll get tips as restaurant attendant in Royal Caribbean?

Hi there! I'm sailing in a week, exactly. So, I just wanted to know if I'll get included in the Gratuity pool and how much do you think I can make a week (only tips)? I'm kinda broke, so I hope to get other income besides my actual salary... I'm sailing onboard The Grandeur of the seas as a Restaurant attendant!

Thanks in advance!

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u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 4 months ago

RCL VS Carnival

Hi! I have 2 offered options: Restaurant attendant at Royal Caribbean with a salary of $934 USD VS bar server at carnival with a salary of $300 USD. I don't know if Restaurant attendant includes tips or it's like the similar salary

Which one should I choose?

Actually I'm sailing this coming June with RC, Carnival hasn't assigned me yet...

This will be my very first cruise. Which one should I choose?

u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 6 months ago
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Hi! So, I'm Mexican and I've worked at restaurants and hotels (banquets) I'm currently applying for cruises. I have a question for all of you: How do you serve in different countries? I have specific questions lime:

  1. Do you also (in a table) serve firstly the woman and then the man, even if it's a large table like 20 people in restaurants/banquets?

  2. In High-end dinners in Banquets usually you don't clear your table until the head-waiter indicates (to proceed with the next course). Do you apply the same think in restaurants? You, as a Waiter, do you wait for most of the people of a table (4, 10, 20 people) finish their meal to take off all of the dirty plates? Or do you take off when someone is done?

  3. Do you introduce yourself in Banquets? (In front of the table)

  4. What do you do: Offer something to drink, deliver the menu and offer the chef's specials or you offer the chef's specials and then offer something to drink?

I'd love to hear from you guys! Thanks in advance!

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u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 6 months ago

Hi! So I got assigned as a Restaurant attendant. I have almost everything done (Medical exam, VISA C1 D, etc) It's just missing my Seaman's book (In Mexico is Libreta de Mar) and I'm sailing on June 13th

I'm not really satisfied with my position assigned. I've been a Waiter at land most of the time, at restaurants and Banquets.

I'm aware I won't be a Waiter in my very first Contract on cruises, but at least as an assistant waiter.

Do you think it's a great idea to create a case with NAVI and ask for another position? Or is it too risky?

I've also been applying for others cruise lines due to this.

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u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 6 months ago

Hi! This will be my first time on cruises. This will be like my farewell to my very short hospitality career as a Waiter. I've worked for JW Marriott, High-end restaurants and served some important politicians as The Swedish Royalty (all in Mexico), though I've been reading that this ship I got assigned (The grandeur of the seas) is not the best. Also I'm going to start as a Restaurant attendant. I did accept my assignment and I already have all of my documents (VISA C1 D, seaman's book, health test, STCW certificate, etc) and I'm sailing this coming June... I don't know, what do you suggest me to do? Should I ask for a ship change and different position? (I'm really into The Ultimate World cruise, or the biggest ship) Or should I apply to another cruise line

I'll quit my job (JW MARRIOTT) this coming month, so I'm not sure if this could be so risky... Maybe, will it be faster if I have all of my documents already? Idk what to do!

u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 6 months ago

Hi! I'm from Mexico and I've worked for restaurants and Banquets! I'm sailing on Royal Caribbean this coming June, that's the reason of my thread: Asking about service.

I want to start a conversation about how to improve your service, how different is in different countries, in different areas as Banquets and restaurants, so:

How do you serve in other countries? I have some doubts in fine-dining. Do you do the same? Can you give any advice?

Let me tell you my sequence in restaurants and Banquets at least in Mexico.

Restaurant (steps to follow) : Greet the guest (pull the chair), introduce yourself, offer something to drink, give the menu and offer chef's specials. Then you take the order, and introduce the order into the system. (You're assistant already place the something to pick, as bread, butter or any other thing) While waiting you place the rest of the silverware and then, you take off the empty plate to place the first course. Now, I have a question: Do you apply the same thing as Banquets? Specifically I mean: You wait for everyone or almost everyone to finish to tell the kitchen and you take off all of the dirty plates all at once or you take off the plate everyone who is done? I mean not all at the same time.

You continues with your main course and then you remove everything when they're done. Then you offer the dessert menu and offer something to drink and take order of the desserts. Then Deliver the coffee and the dessert and that's pretty much it. After that you continue with drinks.

Banquets: greet the guest (you ain't introduce yourself), and then, when the head waiter indicates you start offering wine (or something to drink), place butter and bread, right after you take off the empty plate and go to the kitchen. You wait for everyone (waiters) to arrive, and after the waiter who has assigned the VIP table (Like the Bride and the groom) you enter the Hall and everyone attends to their table. Deliver the first course. You cannot take off any dirty dish until the head waiter indicates so. Then you clear your tables and do the same process. In desserts, after clearing everything in your table (like salt, peppers, dirty dishes, etc) you deliver the dessert and right after you offer coffee/digestives. (In restaurants is the other way around. Firstly the coffee and then the dessert) (Obviously in Banquets exist coffee breaks, cocktails, buffets, etc. although I have doubts in fine-dining

What do you think? Should I change something? Is it different in your country? Perhaps It could be different due to American service, french service, Kosher, etc...

I'd love to hear from you, guys!

u/Dry_Reason_3294 — 6 months ago