u/Due-Appearance2243

Been seeing so many power related posts

Exactly where is this shitty power supply? I live in sec 57 and it is all fine here. Just getting an idea what areas are affected?
Also what are they being promised when asked about it? What about the DGs etc.
I know it is a frustrating situation currently, and hence I would like to help.
If any girl wants to come and sleep over and relax as they are too exhausted with the power supply, I would be happy to do that. I would just like to see some social media proofing etc.
I am 25F myself and live with my female friend and boyfriend, so it should be fine.

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u/Due-Appearance2243 — 18 hours ago

Whenever I find out that my friend is morally wrong, I start disliking them (flatmates had sex)

I am 25 and I have had this instinctive desire of hating my close friends or maybe not liking them much anymore if they really fuckup morally.
When I was in my college there was this best friend of mine with other guys in my group. I was v close to my male friends and she kinda played w them all, leading on basically. I tried really hard to think that it is fine and she hasn’t done anything w me, but oh boy! I eventually stopped speaking to her two months later as I felt sort of an awkwardness.
Now this has happened w me multiple times so its not just this one incident, but I wanted to give you guys a perspective of what I mean exactly.
Now I stay with one of my v close female friends, her college friend (who is basically her best friend’s ex) but she isn’t friends with her anymore. This male flatmate and her gf were from college, eventually got into an ldr, he stopped giving her time, she was baffled, he complained on how un understanding she is, but he used to chill out w us during that time so idk exactly. When they broke up, she blamed it alot on my female close friend saying that she is a home wrecker and she has been like that since college. I do not know the whole context as I am from a diff uni.
I always suspected that the male flatmate has feelings for my friend, but never the other way round, as she earns almost double the guy and she is kinda really good looking and seeks for v polished guys. She confessed the same to me.
Last to last night I had a fight w my female friend. They were all drunk except me (my bf also lives w us) and I got angry due to some unreliability issue due to apartment chores.
The male flatmate and friend did not come out for like 2 days from the room. They casually sleep together (no handsy business). I assumed they were taking their time and god knows what.
Turns out. I received a package yesterday morning w lube in it.
I just felt so nauseated. Like WTF, how could you do that to your ex best friend? And on top of that you guys were always calling out on each other on how great of friends you guys are and now this??
They came out and had a conversation yesterday late night. Said that it was a one time thing. They did it sober. They fuckin ordered lube, it wasn’t a mistake, you knew what you were doing. I wouldve been fine if they wouldve said that they had feelings for each other bla bla. But they said they dont to disclose this to anyone else.
I am genuinely uncomfortable now. How can I act normal as if yes you guys are such good people? If there is a brother code, where the heck is the the siscode? Also like how do I act as if its all funny and friends still when I already know that they have made out? We joke on anything and everything about each other, it is kinda v sad to me now.

I just want to know that is my disappointed and feeling of disgust valid? Or should I change myself and learn to mind my own business (but it does make me v uncomfortable in my heart).

Tldr: Flatmates had sex, the guys ex was female flatmate’s best friend. They had a breakup because of this female flatmate. They now want me to act like its all normal but I feel uncomfortable and disgusted. Can’t do a normal conversation with them, let alone live together. Am I being too unrealistic? Or just extra?

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u/Due-Appearance2243 — 1 day ago

Designer here! Flaunting my bread butter

Got this air m5 2 months back as an upgrade from my company and I had this last Sunday vacant lol, decided to give my device a personality of its own!

u/Due-Appearance2243 — 2 days ago
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Here is my little boy after his first grooming session post the trip. We took him to Mussoorie by car, and it was so good. I really really suggest people getting a dog if they can afford it mentally, physically and ofc financially.

I see so many people on this sub, lonely, and genuinely broken. This would be my v realistic advice. My life has absolutely transformed.

I turned 26 a couple months back, and since 19 years of, I have only slept after 4am. More often 5am. My shifts allow it LOL. But oh boy, I have been waking up at 10am every single day from the past 80 days.

Initially I hated it, I regretted the decision. I am bachelor and it hit me how it would affect so many parameters of my life, but trust me, it is all worth it.

You go out and you see someone, looking at you so dearingly, so lovingly, wanting to just hug you, and that, that moment could fix everything.

I got a dog because of I was dead scared of dogs. I was someone so dependent with the wfh that I have been doing since 4 years now, I couldn’t walk the streets by myself due to the fear of dogs. My boyfriend from last 3 years would come to the car’s gate to get me if there were dogs around, which was almost all the time.

And look at me now, in just 2-3 months, I feel so independent of that fear, I can straightup pet indies now, but yes, only the lazy ones from the mountains LOL, regular dogs here do not scare me anymore though.

Please bless him you guys with the best health and mind! His name is Mellow. He says HII to all of you!

u/Due-Appearance2243 — 22 days ago

I already took him for a 7 hour road trip to a hill station at 3 months old. He did vomit once, but we got him checked before the trip, and right before leaving the station which was 2 days later. The final day was almost 12 hours in the car, and he did amazing as well!

I am so proud.

My entire day revolves finding ways of keeping him engaged with mental stimulation when he is awake. I just put some kibbles in paper sometimes and crush it into a ball and give it to him.

I have kongs, lickmats, snuffle mats, and other puzzles, and boy! He knows very well how to settle down by himself.

When I was at the hotel in the hill station, he was tired most of the time because he was having so much fun in the hills running and sniffing. He would settle in the tv area of the suite, where we would also lock the door to the bedroom area, he had his crate open on the sofa, with sofa being secured with huge cushions. He slept, just like the puppy he is, but so calmly every single time! He has always been very social, as I am bachelor with friends/flatmates and he is used to seeing new people all the time. He is terrified of other dogs and kids though, which I will be working on.

Some days, which are rare, he will just settle down beside me and watch the tv, other times I have to move him in his playpen+crate attached setup.

He isn’t prefect, but I think I train him alot! Positive re-enforcement all the time, along with 3-times a week professional training at home. Sometimes he is a straight up Pirahna, but I kinda have figured out what works for him.

Ask me questions if you are struggling with a new puppy, or just vent it here, trust me, I am hanging by a string at my job, I just cant focus enough LOL!

u/Due-Appearance2243 — 25 days ago