Malo konteksta, imam bager, klijent želi da radim posao za njegovu firmu, 6 dana tjedno, vjv 6-7 sati na dan, on plaća troškove prijevoza i gorivo.
Pitao me koliko bih mu tjedno naplaćivao, zanima me koja cifra je korektna.
Razmišljam o 1500-2000 eura, ali stvarno ne znam je li to previše, premalo, taman...
I will now give you some context to understand the situation better. I would also really appreciate women's point of view on all of this.
So it all started last year when we matched on tinder, she recently broke up with her bf and she just wanted to forget about him maybe, I don't even know.
We started talking a lot, she even said that I am very attractive (which is very rare for me to hear). She was the first to start the sexual topics, jokes and stuff like that and second time we saw eachother we ended up kissing, cuddling, touching. Third time was the same with some oral on both sides.
But even before we met for the first time she made it clear that she doesn't want a relationship and that she is still not over her ex and that there is a high chance they get back together. So she wanted just some fun with me and I accepted that even though I had deeper feelings for her which I also told her.
She also said that she would love to stay in touch with me in a friendly way, no matter what happens between her and her ex.
Soon after our third meeting she said that she is back with her ex. Honestly, I was feeling terrible hearing that, I guess I got my hopes up too much. Important thing to add is that I was never in a relationship, I had some causal hookups but she is the first woman to actually make me feel something more, the first one to actually make me feel like I was attractive.
So I was pretty devastated. I told her that as much as it hurts me, I wish them the best and I thanked her for making me feel like I was worth something.
Obviously, we didn't keep in touch, I expected that to happen, I quickly noticed the messages getting slower from her side.
And about a month or so later, she tells me that they broke up again, this time for good.
I told myself I won't give in and it's not like she wanted to have fun with me again, but we started talking a lot again.
Of course, soon after my feelings for her came back, I told her that but she said she doesn't want anything with anyone right now. Which I accepted.
Until she met this girl (forgot to mention that she is BI) and she started hanging out with her all the time, started texting me less again and one day told me she is kind of in love with her.
Again, I was left devastated and jealous. I don't even know if I had a right to be jealous. But getting rejected by someone telling you they don't want anything and then very quickly after turns out they do want something but not with you, hurts a lot.
I told her that, she kind of dismissed my jealousy saying that it doesn't have anything to do with me.
And there we stopped texting for a while.
Then again after things with that girl didn't workout because she turned out to be a bad person, she starts texting me again.
This time I really didn't want anything with her but as we kept texting I have fallen into the same trap again.
She kept saying how she is serious this time, no relationships, no hookups. And even said that if she wanted sex she would just do it with me. And started hinting at some sexual stuff a few more times later, but nothing serious.
Same thing happened again, she hooked up with a new girl, she almost ghosted me for 2 days, said honestly that she was with her.
I just felt like shit honestly. Now I am thinking how everyone is acceptable but me, it's like she keeps telling me that stuff just so I don't get any ideas but knows she would do it with the right person.
After all of this I am still a massive idiot and I still want something with her.
But for the last few days I was thinking of telling her that we should not keep talking.
And the worst thing is, for a long time now, we only talk when she clearly doesn't have anyone else to hang out with, when she is bored, when she is sad because someone pissed her off or she would even start fights with me because someone else got her angry.
But as soon as she has plans with her actual friends, she barely responds to me.
I am a huge people pleaser and I keep letting this shit slide.
And she might sound like bad person from this description, but she only has some bad tendencies, she is not that bad actually.
I have massive mood swing depending on how much attention she gives me and I feel terrible because of it.
I feel so fucking pathetic...
So please, what is your opinion on this?