Why is it always them?
Before I start, just wanna be clear I don’t judge body types or wanna spread hate, pero I just lost my patience on this one.
For context, Me(27M) and my friend sa work are just having a conversation about what workout are we hitting after our shift, talking about our meal preps and such.
Suddenly this girl na ka work din namin, cuts us both while talking bigla nalang saying “ako ayoko yung mga macho kagaya katawan nyo, di talaga appealing” “ano point pinipigilan nyo kumain masasarap, di kayo nag eenjoy sa buhay” “mas gusto ko mag stay nalang saamin and manuod buong araw kesa mag gym”
First, we are doing this for sarili namin, not you
Second, we find the food we make enjoyable, not the usual chicken breast rice lang combo.
Third, piss off.
So yeah going back, I told her di naman kami nag woworkout for her sake and this is what we enjoy doing, AND SHE SAYS “ew”
Now with that “ew” lalo nako na tilt, I’m all for body positivity, idc ano preference mo or hobbies mo, pero you joined our conversation without us asking your input then sasabihan mo kaming “ew” screw you.
I lost it and said “If ew kami, what do you call yung katawan mong both bilog and square?” “Okay lang di kami appealing sayo, we work on ourselves di para sa mga ka katawan mo”, bicc left.
Though this isn’t the first time someone told me na di nila prefer yung athletic build, I’m in a happy relationship idc tbh.
Pero one thing I noticed is that these types of comments, all came from people na horizontally challenged. So it got me thinking, do they not like fit people dahil di sila fit? Or something similar. Why is it na most of the time, at least in my experience, sakanila galing.
Kase sa mga running events, gyms and sports events na pinupuntahan ko, I don’t usually get negative comments like that from anyone.
It’s kind of odd na it always comes from them. Any thoughts about this?