I'm looking for a fellow INFP in this sub..！
Last winter I posted something here, ranting about how I got conflicted between quitting my job and waiting it out to see if something new would come out of that.
I got a heartfelt response from a fellow INFP here, and later we swapped some ideas and blurted things out through DMs about what was happening in our lives and how we processed them and what we got out of them.
I have to say those conversations helped me through a rather chaotic and conflicted phase.
He was always kind and sincere when we talked. I didn’t know many factual things about him besides that he's from Paris, that he picked up English through the pure necessity of understanding video game terms and slang from a young age because he "had to know what was on his computer screen," (I‘ve always thought that’s a very infp thing to do.) and that his dream is to own a bakery of his own and cook things for his girlfriend. A very relatable domestic and loving piece of dreamscape.
(At some point we joked about having a laid-back lifestyle and being a princess and doing absolutely nothing. He had gorgeous hair so I somehow think he’s already qualified as one though he claimed if anything it made him look like Jesus.)
He said it once that he liked to envision grand adventure storylines while driving around in his car with epic adventure tracks playing and I was like oh who wouldn’t. (*wink*)
But earlier this year, his account went: "This account may have been banned or the username is incorrect." I genuinely don't know whether that means he changed his username or got banned somehow. But when I checked our chat history had been erased. I can only see my side of the messages. That makes the conversations and the fleeting understanding between us all seem like a dream.
I feel a bit sad that I lost contact with someone whose feelings and ideas I find interesting and relatable! So I want to try my luck here.
If by any chance you are seeing this post right now, Aka, please let me know if you'd still like to exchange opinions and feelings on things that happen to happen in our lives! 🥹🤩