u/Dull_Sock_6326

I’m 19M and I feel like there is no need to come out due to the fact that “straight” people don’t have to come out so why do we? I feel that if I did come out it wouldn’t change anything….im still me and im still (My, Name) , im not someone different just becuase I come out as gay right? Im asking any other gay men who grew up on small “homophobic-esc” towns, did you feel a need to come out or was it something that didn’t matter to you as much because it’s like trying to convince a brick wall to become plaster?