We have a great connection Im just not attracted to her
I matched with a girl on a dating app, we have spoken for a few weeks and really have a great connection on the phone and even in person. But there is one big problem... when we met in person I realized she was larger than I expected.
She told me she was in her words a "chunky monkey" but I just didnt think she was this "chunky". I dont mean to sound like a bad guy but I just wasnt attracted to her. I think she is attractive and I could see myself with her if we both got in better shape but I just dont know what to do.
She is everything I want with the exception of this one thing. Has anyone tried to slow burn and see if a spark eventually emerges or is this doomed?
edit: she has lost over 20 lbs since we started talking so this unattraction may not be there in a few months