u/Dystopiawa

Should I call it quits?

Hello all!

My girlfriend got these piercings in early September, done by a trainee piercer. She cleaned them with the spray given to her and additionally with a saline solution , they didn't heal well however and after going back to the piercer she was recommended a cream to help with the Inflammation however it didn't seem to go away.

Should she just remove them, let it heal, try again? Or is there a better way to fix this.

Thank you for your insight!

u/Dystopiawa — 6 days ago

▲ 8 r/BPD

Hey all, i recognise that this is a kind of dumb post to make especially since BPD is such a larped disorder riddled with a lot of misinformation on social media and a lot of stigma surrounding it.

I recently had some heavy talks with my girlfriend (who has diagnosed BPD), she suggested that my behaviour is very reminiscent of someone with BPD and that i should bring it up to a professional (I did but nothing came of it yet).

Im not here to list my symptoms to gain approval but Im wondering what you made you guys realize that your behaviour was truly BPD and not just something else (for me i can imagine its a mix of my diagnosed autism/depression/ocd that overlaps with some aspects of BPD but idk)

i appreciate any and all input

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u/Dystopiawa — 18 days ago