u/Early-Upstairs5651

I have been on testosterone for about 8 months now (I'm 42). My voice has significantly dropped as well and I sing baritone in a men's choir. No matter how I dress, my mannerisms, my haircut, or my voice, I get ma'am'd most of the time, including at work. I had top surgery about 7 months ago, which I also had thought would help, and I have naturally broader shoulders, a more boxy waist, and less hips than the majority of cis women (men's clothing has always fit me better). I go to the gym and I am pretty close to having the V shape.

Maybe I will have more changes in the future, but for now, I feel like giving up hope. It doesn't help that my family and many other people I know are not supportive. At least my girlfriend (also trans) and my gay men's choir are supportive and don't usually misgender me. Any tips to pass better?

I wanted one since I was a kid

Getting frustrated - keep getting misgendered