How can you tell if he or she is 'the one' you're looking for? 😣
Situation: There was a suitor for almost 3 years and until now he still harbor a feelings for me even though I keep trying to push him away because I have high standards now when it comes to relationship and I'm scared for another commitment because of my past. I was dumped by my ex boyfriend who fed me some sweet promises but in the end he still chose his ex. I suddenly built a wall between us when he find out I'm single again, but he still pursue me. I first met him when we were young, it was pre school days. He is kind, thoughtful, gentleman, funny, considerate, someone that will always warm your heart through silly jokes , and someone who is good when it comes to advice. Sometimes he is so sensitive over some small problem, like someone who is throwing a tantrums. Even though he acting like that, I always doubt his true intentions. (I think I'm the problem here?😭*)* I feel like he only need someone to chat with for entertainment purpose only, like he is playing my feelings. He always find some excuses everytime he disappeared and he always use sweet words and other cheesy potatoes words to make you fall for him by being straight forward. He maybe coward sometimes but he always tell me he will try to build a courage to face my family.
I saw a quote from soc med saying "when a man wants you he will do anything to win your heart, not by word but through action"
What do you think should I do?