Kiddos eyes are looking nothing like mine, Husband has a greenish/hazel, but i thought mine were blue? Was told they arent blue, theyre brown, but i deffo dont think its brown. Kiddos eyes are turning super light gray. Maybe the weird ring throws people off? Last DL i had said blue, but the lady wanted to change it to brown. Lol ty yall <3
Im at a loss. This week weve seen 3 bedbugs. Theyre chewing him up, theyre chewing us up. The property managers said they were doing their "yearly pest control spraying" which weve never had before, but we opted our unit out because of my snakes. A week later, boom, bed bugs. Im sure another unit had them.
We bought all of our shit brand new for the baby, Im super paranoid and have contamination OCD to begin with. I dont buy things second hand because im afraid of them, I check my snakes for mites constantly and finding these fuckers has been an actual nightmare. Im losing it.
My husband doesnt know how bad it gets. We found our first one on the breastfeeding chair. I was just diagnosed with an auto immune disease within the past month. Im struggling with that, and the baby going through a horrible regression, and guilt for not being sprayed. Im scared for the sbakes, for my kid. My husband took some time off work to help settle this shit, but we need the money ofc so he cant stay off forever, im so tired, baby sleeps maybe 4 hours a night, and i have to sleep with these bugs.
I dont know how to go nuclear. This has caused a flare up for me, i have no energy so husband is sitting with the baby and doing what he can, but i cant even lay in my own bed without feeling disgusted. I feel like im not doing enough, but i feel so terrible ontop of the flare and the kid and everything else. It feels like ive fuxked up my and my kids life. Im the one who chose this appartment. It isnt even that good of a place, but as my husband and i wefe in talks of moving somewhre at the end of the year, now im afraid of hitch hikers.
Is pesticide treatment safe for the snakes? Do i have to rehome them? I love them too much. How do i keep them from infecting someone? How do i protect the baby, i feel so guilty for him getting chewed up, they get him by his neck. Im trying to do research, but i xant find anything for reptiles. Im so tired, i cant go to therapy cause ill give the bugs to them, he has his 6 month shots coming up, i dont want to give bed bugs to the pediatrition. I cant bring them to my doc appts. Im so scared.
Eta: the landlord wants to do a spray themsleves, and they only want to spray the recliner because "thats where they were seen". Apparently the pest control guy only comes third tuesday of every month, i missed him. Doesnt it take multiple sprays? Is only spraying the recliner enough?