So in school, it started when I sent a secret admirer note and he was THRILLED. To say the least. 2 days later I confessed that it was me and (I think) he was happy. We have a mutual friend (his best friend) which helped me to confess. After school, the mutual friend asked what we were with him now. I told them idk. I guess the friend asked him and he told the friend he thinks that me and him are dating. I told the mutual friend that that's fine with me. After that day, almost every day me and him told each other: good morning and see you. (we used to NEVER talk before I confessed) So a few days later, I sent him another note (bcz I'm shy) asking if we could meet up somewhere out of school, and that I'm free next weekend. He wrote back saying: "Alr, if i can come to {mutual friend}'s birthday party we can talk and I'll explain why I cant come on the weekend in the first place.". Ik this is kinda stupid but I wanna interact with him more, and I still kinda see him as a crush although were technically dating. Lately he asks to borrow a pencil or so (although he has pencils) and makes eye contact w me at the least. He also waits for me to exit a room first so he can walk behind me. It's sweet and all, but I'm still worried and anxious to talk to him. Advice on how to keep the relationship alive??
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So basically I sent a secret admirer note and he was THRILLED. To say the least. 2 days later I confessed that it was me and (I think) he was happy. We have a mutual friend (his best friend) which helped me to confess. After school, the mutual friend asked what we were with him now. I told them idk. I guess the friend asked him and he told the friend he thinks that me and him are dating. I told the mutual friend that that's fine with me. After that day, almost every day me and him told each other: good morning and see you. (we used to NEVER talk before I confessed) So a few days later, I sent him another note (bcz I'm shy) asking if we could meet up somewhere out of school, and that I'm free next weekend. He wrote back saying: "Alr, if i can come to {mutual friend}'s birthday party we can talk and I'll explain why I cant come on the weekend in the first place.". Ik this is kinda stupid but I wanna interact with him more, and I still kinda see him as a crush although were technically dating. Lately he asks to borrow a pencil or so (although he has pencils) and makes eye contact w me at the least. He also waits for me to exit a room first so he can walk behind me. It's sweet and all, but I'm still worried and anxious to talk to him. Advice on how to keep the relationship alive??