What if the things you hate about yourself are actually normal?

I think we really need to normalise the fact that people are just... different.

Different bodies, different skin, different hair, different features. Stretch marks, cellulite, scars, acne, body hair, hip dips, uneven skin, birthmarks, asymmetrical faces, different body shapes and sizes.

None of that makes someone less beautiful.

Sometimes I wonder how we got so used to edited pictures and unrealistic beauty standards that we started looking at normal human bodies and thinking something was wrong with them.

Not everything needs to be fixed.

Some things are just part of being human, and honestly, I think there's something beautiful about that.

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u/Easy-Cap-6303 — 1 day ago

What if the things you hate about yourself are actually normal?

I think we really need to normalise the fact that people are just... different.

Different bodies, different skin, different hair, different features. Stretch marks, cellulite, scars, acne, body hair, hip dips, uneven skin, birthmarks, asymmetrical faces, different body shapes and sizes.

None of that makes someone less beautiful.

Sometimes I wonder how we got so used to edited pictures and unrealistic beauty standards that we started looking at normal human bodies and thinking something was wrong with them.

Not everything needs to be fixed.

Some things are just part of being human, and honestly, I think there's something beautiful about that.

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u/Easy-Cap-6303 — 1 day ago

Looking for someone to fake date me for a month because I'm genuinely curious 😂

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Okay, hear me out before you judge.

I've never actually dated. I've had talking stages that somehow always end before they become anything, and at this point I'm genuinely curious what it feels like to be with someone who's obsessed with you in the healthiest way possible.

I'm talking about the sweet stuff. Words of affirmation, reassurance, quality time, random check-ins, cute dates, and just feeling appreciated.

I'm 20 years old ,female based in Nairobi, around Lang'ata.

The fake dating only needs to last a month or less. I just want to experience what healthy affection and intentional dating feel like. After that, I'll be satisfied, and if we naturally become friends or something more, that's a bonus.

This is definitely not an application for the nonchalant, emotionally unavailable, or misogynistic men. I'm looking for a charming, gentle, emotionally mature guy with a good sense of humor who enjoys making someone smile.

If you're in Nairobi, highly preferable near langata to rongai dm.

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u/Easy-Cap-6303 — 2 months ago

Genuine question from someone who does not watch rugby that much.

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Why are rugby players so physically touchy and why does the game feel more close and intense compared to other sports? I keep seeing tackles, scrums, players holding each other, team huddles and all that.

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Not trying to offend anyone, I am honestly curious. I’m used to men not being that physically close with each other in normal settings, so seeing rugby feels a bit unusual to me. Do players just get used to the contact after a while, or is it something you stop noticing once you’re in the game and focused on winning?

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u/Easy-Cap-6303 — 2 months ago

Being asked to Verify myself again

So yesterday they sent me an email to complete my profile , I did that and added the about me , skills etc

After completing all that I wanted to go back to my dashboard and complete the tasks I had but unfortunately I couldn't but I was asked to verify my identity like a first time user.

Is this normal?

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u/Easy-Cap-6303 — 3 months ago