u/EatiYaBoi

what was it like when u saw bladee release Exeter and name the album after ur city ? thats like if bladee dropped an album called Northampton . I’d find that pretty awesome and shocking 😮

I always found it odd when people say this, typically in response to a tragic event. It’s not comforting whatsoever and is even more morbid to think about.

A good example is in a car crash. E.g. Someone who loves driving and has a passion for cars dies in a tragic car accident. It’s so insanely odd to me to say “at least they died doing what they loved…” Like??? This person enjoyed driving sure, but they probably did NOT enjoy crashing and exploding and dying. They probably prefer driving safely and not crashing dramatically and combusting. I know what id prefer !!

I can think of many other examples too. E.g. Steve Irwin’s death, comedian Tommy Cooper dying on stage, etc.

It just feels insensitive and weird, I’ve never seen it as a wholesome and reassuring thought.

I’m 19 years old, working to save for uni. I’ve been working at this warehouse job since January, and the job itself is honestly fine. I drive an electric pallet truck and pick orders. Super basic stuff, straight forward , extremely boring but it’s what you expect ofc.

However , i’ve noticed myself grow increasingly anxious in day to day life, and I’ve never really been a super anxious person in general. Both when I’m at work and not, I always have a looming paranoid feeling. Social events and stuff like that tend to stress me out more, which they never did before.

I believe this is from my warehouse job and the ‘micromanagement ‘ that comes with it. My managers essentially track my every step, question me if im not hitting their high targets they set, so while Im at work i always feel super on edge. Im unsure why this crosses over into my personal life, i always have a feeling that im being watched even though it sounds super silly.

I feel like i can hardly relax , im always slightly on edge, when i literally shouldn’t be. Is there any way to deal with this?? Other than this I don’t even mind the job itself and what im doing, it is what it is, but im concerned about this feeling that’s coming with it.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated