My (non-exclusive) fwb thinks I was SA'd by my coworker, now I am not sure how to feel about this because I did feel bad about hooking up with someone else

My (non-exclusive) fwb thinks I was SA'd by my coworker, now I am not sure how to feel about this because I did feel bad about hooking up with someone else

My fwb and I agree to be non-exclusive but she prefers if I tell her if I did hook up with other girls, just in case. So last weekend, I went out with my coworker but for some reason, I feel quite guilty. A few days ago, she asked me to fix her door lock.

Things led to another, we made out, I kept falling asleep because it was late. Next thing I know, we were in the middle of sex. The next day, I felt terrible. I was wondering if I feel awful because hooking up with my coworker was a bad idea or that I had cheated on my fwb.

So I messaged her about it. She was cool with it. But then she thinks I was SA'd. Now I am trying to figure out why I feel so bad about this whole thing.

u/EbbRemarkable260 — 5 days ago