I sold my ex-wife’s wedding dress on eBay & used her pics in the listing

On the night of my wedding, my (now) ex-wife and I returned to my parents’ house to change and prepare to head to the airport and our honeymoon. My Ex left the dress in the guest room, and while we were on our honeymoon, my sister boxed it up and placed it in the closet, where it stayed for years.

 Our marriage lasted about five years, and my ex never claimed the dress. My Mom asked me to remove the dress from the house because it had bad memories for her. I needed extra cash, and the dress was expensive, so I decided to sell it on eBay. I pulled my old wedding album out of the attic, scanned a few photos, and placed a black box over my Ex’s eyes so that it would be difficult to identify her.

 I sold the dress to a nursing student in South Carolina, who was so happy to get a designer dress for cheap that she sent me a thank-you note. About two months after I sold the dress, my Ex emailed me to say she was remarrying and wanted to come by to pick up her wedding dress. I lied and told her that we had a roof leak and that the dress had been ruined and thrown away.

 

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u/Eddie_Bernays — 5 days ago

Trans Woman Brandished Firearm. 2A Devotion Disappeared...

Disturbing, but unfortunately not surprising. It appears that the 2A doesn't apply to "everyone" in Wyoming.

"Ms. Kelver, 28, drew her gun after she had been pushed down in the street during a brief confrontation with three men in the college town of Laramie, according to police reports and surveillance video. Wyoming’s “stand your ground” law is supposed to offer legal protections to gun owners who draw in self-defense, yet Ms. Kelver was arrested and charged with aggravated assault and possession of a deadly weapon with unlawful intent"

Here is a gifted article (no paywall)

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/08/06/us/transgender-gun-rights-wyoming.html?unlocked_article_code=1.3VA.7SgO.wO0hbdDUwZ24&smid=url-share

u/Eddie_Bernays — 2 months ago

What to Do with Dorothy Thorpe Gold Fleck Collection

Hello Everyone:

My wife and I just inherited an 85-piece collection of Dorothy Thorpe Gold Fleck glasses. Styles range from water goblets to martinis to cordials, and more. We live in Massachusetts, and we have no space for this in our home.

Is there a market for these, or are they best sent to a thrift store?

https://preview.redd.it/fnv1mv6pl7gh1.jpg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=87f24f8a3f2970a9662a549b8cb938c5df90d01c

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u/Eddie_Bernays — 3 months ago

What to Do With Dorothy Thorpe Gold Fleck Collection?

Hello Everyone:

My wife and I just inherited an 85-piece collection of Dorothy Thorpe Gold Fleck glasses. Styles range from water goblets to martinis to cordials, and more. We live in Massachusetts, and we have no space for this in our home.

Is there a market for these, or are they best sent to a thrift store?

https://preview.redd.it/ugmuop3ok7gh1.jpg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d91bf2ec09b5b097e099c2e820a92697f758d3fe

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u/Eddie_Bernays — 3 months ago
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Pls Help Me Understand: Why Hold Sales Meetings, Ask for Proposal, & Then Ghost the Vendor?

Why would a small business owner waste their time on a sales call, provide their budget range to the salesperson, enthusiastically ask for a proposal, and then ghost the salesperson afterward?

I'm interested in your perspectives. Time is valuable. Why waste everyone's time & effort?

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u/Eddie_Bernays — 3 months ago

Need Your Opinion: When Should a Tech Startup Begin PR?

I'm a contributor to a PRnews site called Everything PR, and I have been arguing that the best, most successful startups - especially tech - need to begin their PR efforts early in order to define the market, and position their CEO as an industry authority.

Attaining these two goals fosters greater investment, as investors want to see third-party validation from the news media. It also drives sales, since the client will want to know they are dealing with a legitimate company that has withstood media scrutiny.

I wrote this article earlier this month, and I have received an almost equal amount of agreement and criticism. I'd love to hear what the Startup Savants think.

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u/Eddie_Bernays — 4 months ago

At which point do we hire a PR team … and which agency? (I will not promote)

 We began our Series A in January, and investors are pushing their preferred public relations agency, which I do not like. Propheta Communications reached out earlier this year, and their team seems to know our technology and market well.

  I’m conducting one more round of agency research, and then I’m pulling the trigger. Am I doing the right thing here? Any last-minute recommendations for alternative agencies?

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u/Eddie_Bernays — 5 months ago
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I believe that The Police's, Ghost in the Machine was a better album than Synchronicity. What is a Gen-X-related hill that you are willing to die on?

I've taken a considerable amount of Sh#t for this belief, but I'm standing on it.

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u/Eddie_Bernays — 5 months ago

How Long is Your Sales Cycle - From First Touch to Signed Contract?

When the economy is booming. The sales cycle for our agency can be short - about a week on average.

These days, the sales cycle is closer to 6 weeks from first contact to inked contract. It can be brutal since hot leads turn cool when decision-makers sit on a proposal or need to "think about it."

What are you doing to shorten the sales cycle?

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u/Eddie_Bernays — 5 months ago

CEO wants Public Relations now (pre-series A) to "define the brand." I say wait.

We have the budget for a modest PR effort, but I feel the industry standard is to wait until our FinTech service is more developed, since we only have one opportunity to make a first impression.

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u/Eddie_Bernays — 5 months ago

I receive solicitations almost daily. I’ve spoken with a few of these services, and none of them impressed me. Some told me “no charge until you sign a client,” but later mentioned that there is a “set-up fee.”

 In other cases, it seemed apparent they’re presenting the same few “leads” to multiple agencies, which diminishes my investment in their services.

 Is anyone seeing a reasonable level of success with Lead-Gen services?  

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u/Eddie_Bernays — 6 months ago