u/Educational-Air-5922

I gave the entrance exam and it went well so hopefully I'll get a seat. However I have no living arrangements prepared, I would totally be dependant on the girls hostel. I heard they're allotted based in merit? So would that mean based on entrance result? Or based on the marks of the last qualifying exam we gave (like 12th or bachelors)? Also there must be some no. of seats every year for different depts right? Can someone pls answer all the questions n explain the whole thing to me. If I forgot to ask something but would be relevant info about hostels then do lmk!

Assalamoalaikum everyone.

I'll just get straight to the point. I have KP all over my legs (even up to the hips) and upper arms. On top of that I sometimes get acne on my back and butt. And I have hyperpigmentation on not just my intimate area but also inner thighs and underarms. On inner thighs it developed just recently and underarms have gotten darker.

I take good care of my body. I maintain my hygiene. Physically exfoliate at least 2 times a week. But these issue have started getting worse recently. They didn't use to bother me earlier because as a modest girl, no one saw those parts anyways. But now my age of marriage is close and I'm so so insecure about showing my body to my partner.

I have looked extensively into bodycare practices that could fix these things. Used tretinoin and lactic acid for kp for months. Sadly, kp is genetic and there is no absolute "cure" for it. Its appearance can only be managed and its tiring. I have made my peace with it. But still, if someone with this condition has proven treatments/hacks to make it go away, please do let me know.

Other than that, I just cant get over the hyperpigmentation. Maybe I have some vitamin deficiencies? Like I see people with such clean underarms and I'm like, how do they achieve that? I have tried all kinds of creams and roll ons and what not. And the inner thighs? I dont even know what to do about them since I can't put skincare actives so close to my intimate area.

All in all, I just want bodycare advices to handle these things. And also, some reassurance:'). Do these things matter to men? I hope not. Because how long would I be able to keep up with these extensive routines to keep my body spotless. I want to be desirable for my husband, but I don't want a man who is too stuck up on these details. My body just naturally looks that way despite all the care I put in.