u/Educational-Serve-75

As the title says my commander [[Elsha, Threefold Master]] is a removal magnet. I’m a f2p player and recently was able finish this deck that I was so excited for. The few times she isn’t immediately removed things pop off very quickly. Most of the time though she’s immediately incapacitated and it really puts the breaks on things. Any ideas to overcome this? I have [[Swiftfoot Boots]] and things like [[Dive Down]] but I’m not sure if that’s enough. Any recommendations would be very helpful, thank you!

Hi guys, as the title says I’ve (27M) been having a hard time ( pun intended). I recently started dating a guy after having not dated or hooked up in around 8 years. We haven’t gone full penetration but we’ve done other stuff. I feel I’ve been letting him down because he’s consistently been able to make it to the finish line while I haven’t. Mind you, I get and stay hard. Just no matter hard I or he tries I can’t cum. No matter how much I reassure him, he’s starting think he can’t please me and I’m feeling guilty now. I can see it bothers him though he doesn’t quite admit it. I don’t know what the issue is. I can cum when I masturbate and it’s not a skill issue on his part. I genuinely enjoy what he does. I’ve struggled with this with past partners but not to this level before. It’s like I really have to focus on cumming. Is this a therapy thing? Do I need therapy? Is my brain getting in the way? I do have anxiety, could that really be it? Any advice would help.