Can’t Cum
Hi guys, as the title says I’ve (27M) been having a hard time ( pun intended). I recently started dating a guy after having not dated or hooked up in around 8 years. We haven’t gone full penetration but we’ve done other stuff. I feel I’ve been letting him down because he’s consistently been able to make it to the finish line while I haven’t. Mind you, I get and stay hard. Just no matter hard I or he tries I can’t cum. No matter how much I reassure him, he’s starting think he can’t please me and I’m feeling guilty now. I can see it bothers him though he doesn’t quite admit it. I don’t know what the issue is. I can cum when I masturbate and it’s not a skill issue on his part. I genuinely enjoy what he does. I’ve struggled with this with past partners but not to this level before. It’s like I really have to focus on cumming. Is this a therapy thing? Do I need therapy? Is my brain getting in the way? I do have anxiety, could that really be it? Any advice would help.