u/Educational_Tip_2706

Hello everyone me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years I’m 22/F and he’s M/22 recently we have been going through a really rough patch in our relationship and honestly I don’t know what to do anymore I really want to get married to him but he recently informed me that he did not see himself getting married ever…I asked if it was due to it being me and he told me no that “in his family he’s only ever seen people get divorced “and he doesn’t care for the paper signing or anything that surrounds the marriage scene. For me I always thought that we would get married that, that was the point of a relationship. some other things happened that made me feel a bit off he recently started playing games with a girl i’ve never met and he has never mentioned her to me at all I had to find out on my own, we also recently had a conversation about his dnd sessions with his friend group (I don’t know these people he won’t introduce me to them) but it turns out that she’s been joining the sessions even though i said i wouldn’t feel comfortable with that because i don’t know these people and also he didn’t allow me to join either even though i had great interest in it. He basically lied to me about this girl joining because he knew i’d get upset but at this point i’m so disappointed. He did bring up breaking up but it didn’t make sense to me we’ve been together for so long. I feel like maybe i’m the only one trying to keep this relationship going. Could it be that he thinks that he’s settling to early ? maybe he wants to explore other people ? I can’t shake these feelings off. Is this relationship even worth going through it even though there is a chance of no marriage at all?

Hello everyone me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years I’m 22/F and he’s M/22 recently we have been going through a really rough patch in our relationship and honestly I don’t know what to do anymore I really want to get married to him but he recently informed me that he did not see himself getting married ever…I asked if it was due to it being me and he told me no that “in his family he’s only ever seen people get divorced “and he doesn’t care for the paper signing or anything that surrounds the marriage scene. For me I always thought that we would get married that, that was the point of a relationship. some other things happened that made me feel a bit off he recently started playing games with a girl i’ve never met and he has never mentioned her to me at all I had to find out on my own, we also recently had a conversation about his dnd sessions with his friend group (I don’t know these people he won’t introduce me to them) but it turns out that she’s been joining the sessions even though i said i wouldn’t feel comfortable with that because i don’t know these people and also he didn’t allow me to join either even though i had great interest in it. He basically lied to me about this girl joining because he knew i’d get upset but at this point i’m so disappointed. He did bring up breaking up but it didn’t make sense to me we’ve been together for so long. I feel like maybe i’m the only one trying to keep this relationship going. Could it be that he thinks that he’s settling to early ? maybe he wants to explore other people ? I can’t shake these feelings off. Is this relationship even worth going through it even though there is a chance of no marriage at all?