How can someone get unstuck?
Every so often, when something doesn’t work out so often (financially, emotionally, etc) I find myself getting upset and reminded of the things that happened a few years ago, long story short, got into an accident where I got my ankle broken and my parents weren’t too happy about having to helping me out, to the point that one of my parents got angry and they even blamed me for breaking my ankle even though it was a simple accident that can happen to anyone (falling down the stairs), thus making me feel abandoned. It didn’t help that even tho my sibling gave them a much harder time (to the point in getting trouble with the law) they give them so much more grace then I. This led to me feeling utterly depressed to the point where I got laid off from my job, and not made many smart financial choices.things are a bit more stable now, but as you can imagine, it’s had a lasting effect on me. It didn’t help that I didn’t have a good childhood either. And yet, people who have had terrible things happen to them are still able to succeed and progress through life. For me, it still sometimes seems I’m stuck in time, and clueless on how to move forward in life. It seems like therapy is only useful for venting at this point and time, please help.